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Speaker 4: If you're listening
to the Wednesday in the Word
podcast, I'm Krisan Marotta.
And today, my husband, David
John Garata, will be speaking on
Psalm 49.
You can follow along with the
lecture notes at
wednesdayintheword.com slash
psalm49.
Thanks for joining us.
Speaker: Okay, if you have your
Bibles, turn to Psalm 49.
The title of this Psalm, the
subtitle that the New American
Standard puts in trying to
summarize what the Psalm is
about is The Folly of Trusting
in Riches.
So I don't know how many of you
know I used to teach computer
science and then be a computer
programmer.
More recently, for the past
several years, I've been a fee
only financial planner and money
manager.
So I always thought it would be
a good title for a money firm,
folly money management, or
something like that.
Speaker 5: Be a great title.
That's right.
Speaker: Folly money management.
It'd be great.
So let me read the psalm and
then we'll talk about it.
Hear this, all peoples.
Give ear all inhabitants of the
world, both low and high, rich
and poor together.
My mouth will speak wisdom, and
the meditation of my heart will
be understanding.
I will incline my ear to a
proverb, I will express my
riddle on the harp.
Why should I fear in the days
of adversity, when the iniquity
of my foes surrounds me, even
those who trust in their wealth
and boast in the abundance of
their riches?
No man can by any means redeem
his brother, or give God a
ransom for him, for the
redemption of his soul is
costly, that he should cease
trying forever, that he should
live on eternally, that he
should not see the pit.
For he sees that even wise men
die, the stupid and senseless
alike perish, and leave their
wealth to others.
Their inner thought is that
their houses are for ever, and
their dwelling places to all
generations.
They have called their lands
after their own names, but man
in his pomp will not endure.
He is like the beasts that
perish.
This is the way of those who
are foolish, and of those after
them who approve their words.
Selah.
As sheep, they are appointed
for Sheol, death shall be their
shepherd, and the upright shall
rule over them in the morning,
and their form shall be for
Sheol to consume, so that they
have no habitation.
But God will redeem my soul
from the power of Sheol, for he
will receive me.
Selah.
Do not be afraid when a man
becomes rich, when the glory of
his house is increased, for when
he dies he will carry away
nothing, his glory will not
descend after him.
Though while he lives he
congratulates himself, and
though men praise you when you
do well for yourself, he shall
go to the generations of his
fathers.
They shall never see the light.
Man in his pomp, yet without
understanding, is like the
beasts that perish.
Okay.
Um this psalm, let me pass out
an outline.
This psalm is um on the one
hand, it's sort of painfully
obvious, having read it, what
the point is.
So we're going to try to go
over a little bit the kinds of
things that you might go through
when you're looking at
observation, and then get on to
more of the application portion
of this morning.
The first thing is just to look
at the structure of the psalm
and to notice that verses 1
through 4 is sort of an
introduction.
Then you have sort of a middle
section that goes through 13,
and then the last section either
divides 14 and 15 to the end,
or you could put the whole thing
together.
The reason why you divide 14
and 15 separately is, of course,
because you have the sela in
there that's sort of breaking up
the psalm.
That usually is an indication
that this is where the psalmist
decided to break it, and so who
are we to argue with him?
But let's just take a look to
begin with at the first four
verses.
The psalm is written by the
sons of Korah, who wrote a lot
of the psalms in the book.
They were, I don't know how to
put it, a singing team, if you
will, who would lead music.
So think about scripture being
written by our choir, and
they're out there, and they're
not just singing songs, they're
actually writing the songs, and
they're putting them together in
order to sing them, and this is
sort of their ministry, and
it's also God's word at the same
time.
And they wrote 42 through 49,
and then 84, 85, and then 87 and
88.
So they wrote a number of the
books of the chapters in Psalms.
The first section is really
just trying to say, look, listen
up.
This is important.
This is for everyone.
I want all of you to pay
attention.
It's for you, it's for you,
it's for you.
And so it's trying to get our
attention and say, if you think
you're exempt from this psalm,
you're wrong.
And I think that that, there's
actually a lot of wisdom that's
contained in that.
You'll notice he says in verse
2, both low and high together.
So it's it's both those who are
powerful and influential and
those who lack power and
influence.
And then he says, it's for the
rich and poor together.
Now, you wouldn't think
necessarily that a psalm that's
about trusting in wealth would
be, and the folly of trusting in
wealth would be one that you
would have to direct at the
poor.
You'd think you'd just one
that's primarily directed at the
sin, at the sins of the rich.
The rich are the ones who would
be tempted to trust in their
wealth, the ri richer the ones.
And yet, um, having dealt with
people on sort of all ends of
the financial spectrum, um, I
can tell you that people always
criticize those who have more
money and feel sorry for those
who have less money, and it's it
wherever they are, that's their
vantage point for looking at
the world.
And the same kinds of things
that you can, the same kinds of
mistakes that you can make if
you're rich, you can make even
if you're poor.
Let me give you an example.
Um, some uh some pastors that I
know went over and they were
doing work in Africa and they
were looking at how little
Africans had in terms of
financial wealth, and feeling
like they were underprivileged,
if you will, and yet they were
perfectly happy, they had food,
they had clothing, they had
everything that they needed, and
just looking at that and
thinking that there's something
missing there is um is a sort of
a financial mistake.
It's a it's a it's a it's a
folly.
God has promised his people
food, clothing, shelter, that's
it.
That's what he's promised his
people.
He hasn't promised his people
anything more than that, and if
they have that, they have
everything that they need, all
the blessings that they need
from God.
It's also very easy to take
pride in the fact that you're
poor as much as it is to take
pride in the fact that you're
rich.
And I think within the
financial or within within the
finances of Christians, we feel
very uncomfortable talking about
money.
We feel very uncomfortable
talking about having a lot of
money, having too little money,
how we spend our money.
It's a very uncomfortable
topic.
That's true even outside the
church.
Most kids don't know what their
parents made.
Most parents don't talk with
their kids about finances.
It's it's it's certainly a more
taboo subject in today's
society than sexuality is in
talking about things with your
kids.
So, what do we teach in the
schools?
We have these huge sex ed
programs, we teach them all the
intimate details of sexuality
down to technique and plumbing
and everything else.
And then what do we teach them
about finances?
What do we teach them about
just the way in which you should
think about the world
financially?
And the answer is almost zero.
Now, I was very fortunate.
I grew up in a family in which
my parents talked about
sexuality and finance and
everything else at the dinner
table as a matter of course.
And so I remember at age four,
I knew how much mortgage we had
on our home, what the interest
rate was at.
I knew what my dad made as a
civil servant in the government.
I knew I knew what everything
cost.
I was uh an expert at the
prices right.
I could nail every single,
every single value.
It was one of my favorite shows
when I was young.
I don't know why, but it was.
It says something strange about
me.
Um But I I've learned since
then that that was an
aberration.
Most kids, most parents hide
what they make from their kids,
they hide the kinds of financial
decisions, they hide um when
they're giving money away, they
hide when they're generous, they
hide when they're stingy, they
hide when they're they're
wasting money.
They just sort of hide all of
that, and they and they don't
have those kinds of
interactions.
And so you can have bad
attitudes about money from
almost any place you are.
The other interesting thing is
the fact that all of you are in
this room in the United States
of America means, according to
the world's population, you're
in the top 5% of the rich of the
rich of the rich.
So if you think this is only
toward rich people, well,
welcome to the club.
We're all rich in this room,
because we all have a lot more
than just um just food and
clothing.
So this first section is really
trying to get our attention,
and then it's going on to talk
about both low and high, rich
and poor together.
My mouth will speak wisdom, and
the meditation of my heart will
be understanding.
Um this is um the the words
here for my mouth will speak
wisdom, and the meditation of my
heart will be understanding, I
will incline my ear to a proverb
and express my riddle on the
harp.
These are all words that you
find a lot in the book of
Proverbs as wisdom literature,
and this is saying that this is
universal truths, you you you uh
there's a sense in which you
didn't need God's revelation to
know about this.
So this psalm is going to give
you God's perspective, but you
didn't need God's perspective.
You didn't need some special
revelation.
You could just look around you
in life, and you could learn
everything there is to know
about this psalm, and you could
write it.
And that's why I think it's
very clear that the sons of
Korah didn't need a special
message from God.
If you just take God's, any bit
of God's truth, that God exists
and that he cares about the way
you live, and you look at the
world, you could come up with
this psalm.
You could have written this
psalm.
This isn't a, this isn't
special revelation, this is
general revelation.
Which means this is also
something that you can interact
with your non-Christian friends.
This is a touching point which
makes for good evangelism
because it has traction.
Non-Christians recognize this
as much as Christians recognize
this.
You can't take it with you when
you die.
It's just sort of an obvious
thing.
In the end, none of that is
going to help you.
There's a problem, there's
problems that are looming in
your life that money won't
solve.
Money, by the way, solves all
kinds of problems.
It's just the most important
ones in life it doesn't solve.
So, so I mean, I Sophie Tucker
was one of the people.
I love her quote, I've been
poor and I've been rich, rich is
better.
So, yeah, that's the sort of
attitude that you can have
toward money.
It doesn't solve, however, the
most important issues of life,
which are meaning of life
questions, what are you going to
do?
Can you be the kind can you
live as the kind of person that
you need to live?
What happens to you when you
die?
You know, all the most
important issues.
Then he goes on, um, why should
I fear in the days of
adversity, when the iniquity of
my foes surrounds me, even those
who trust in their wealth and
boast in the abundance of their
riches?
No man can by any means redeem
his brother or give God a ransom
for him, for the redemption of
his soul is costly, that he
should cease trying forever,
that he should live on
eternally, and he should not see
the pit.
One of the attitudes that we
have toward money is that we
fear those who have money and
power.
We fear what they will do with
it.
We defer to them, we're afraid
to annoy them, we're afraid to
speak unkindly of them.
We know that they have things
that we want, so we service them
better.
And if you look at um if you
look at the book of James, when
James talks about when a rich
man comes into your assembly, do
you give him the seat of honor?
You know, those are the
attitudes that we have toward
people who have money.
We're somehow a little bit
impressed by money in a way that
we shouldn't be.
Um And in the back of our
minds, in the back of our minds,
we don't think that someone who
is not powerful and influential
is as important as someone who
is.
So is the janitor who works in
the building as important as the
CEO?
You know, we sort of look at
that and we say, no, he's not.
We really we really don't
believe that as Christians and
we should.
Um I mean you've you've
probably uh heard, you know, in
Charlottesville, we're in where
an academic community, instead
of wealth, substitute degrees
after your name, or any kind of
power or influence or status,
all of those things we're
somehow impressed by in a way
that we shouldn't.
People are people, and we
should treat people as being in
the image of God, and who isn't
in the image of God?
No one.
So the first sort of principle
that you get out of this psalm
is one that you shouldn't be
impressed by those who have
money.
You shouldn't treat them
differently, you shouldn't
revere them differently, and you
shouldn't, it's the same thing
about yourself, you shouldn't
take pride in yourself because
you do have money.
So I'm gonna sort of give you
three ways to think about money
that are that I think are
touchstones.
And if every time you're
dealing with money or power of
or influence, you have those
three in mind, they have
positive aspects and they have
negative aspects, positive ways
of saying it.
If every every time you deal
with money or influence or
power, if you have those three
in mind, they will help
triangulate where God wants you
to be.
And so sometimes if you were
just one way, it would push you
one way, but with three
principles in mind, it will help
keep you balanced between those
three to figure out where you
need to be.
Um this is what are the three
principles then?
Uh I'm gonna get to them at the
bottom.
The first one, it's basically
avoiding greed, fear, and pride.
Or stated more positively, it's
gonna be practice stewardship,
be generous, and respect
calling.
Um the the one and the first
one is just the idea of pride
that you shouldn't treat someone
who has money and power and
influence differently.
I love verse 7.
No man can by any means redeem
his brother or give to God a
ransom for him, for the
redemption of his soul is
costly.
He should cease trying forever.
You know, in the New Testament,
we understand that there's only
one thing that will redeem
someone's life, and that is the
shed blood of Jesus.
And that is what gives us all
worth and power, or power and
influence as sons and daughters
of the king, and that's really
where we have power and
influence.
Um another sort of aspect, if
we were to be assigning some
task to be, let's say that we
were preparing for a big banquet
in here, and we were assigning
what people were going to bring,
and you were required to bring
the toothpicks, and you were
required to bring the main
course.
Okay, who have I burdened the
most?
I've burdened the one who's
required to bring the main
course uh main course to the
banquet.
Now, think about in that in
terms of the money.
I've made you poor and I've
made you rich.
And in service of the king, in
preparing for his banquet, he
has more responsibilities to use
things wisely, to make sure
that everything's prepared
properly.
We often don't view wealth as a
burden, but I believe that if
we had spiritual eyes, we would
see that the more things that
you've been given to be a
steward over, the more work you
have to do to make sure that
those things are used for the
king's service.
And so, if you don't have very
much, well then you don't have
as much of a burden on handling
those material things.
You're maybe freer to do other
things with your time and
service and efforts.
And so if you start thinking
about wealth as being given to
you for stewardship rather than
being given to you for your own
pleasure, then the only thing
that you have to do with your
money is you don't have to be,
I'll put it this way, you don't
have to be a great financial
manager and be investing it all
in the right places and be
worried about doing things right
according to the world's eyes.
You really just have to be
asking the question, what does
God want you to do with the
money and resources that you've
been given?
And I will I will tell you
that, I mean, I I met one person
who we were advising, and this
wasn't, it's not a it's not a
client, it was just someone we
were talking to, and they had
this massive amount of wealth,
and they were talking about
where to invest it and stuff
like that.
They had no purpose for it.
It was just wealth, and they
just were managing it.
They had no kids, or if they
did, they weren't going to leave
it to their kids.
Um they didn't really care
about the charity they were,
they were, that they they would
they decide to leave, that they
were deciding to leave it to.
They were so frugal in their
spending that they didn't need
any of this.
They had pensions and income
coming in.
They were actually adding to
these investments.
There was no purpose for their
investment whatsoever.
And so it was it was very
difficult to advise someone
because the very first thing in
sort of financial planning is
what are your goals?
What are you trying to
accomplish with it?
And I will tell you, too, that
that's very different for
Christians than it is for
non-Christians.
For non-Christians, there's
there's a very sort of set of
goals, and they and they don't
take their eyes up off those
goals, and that's that's the
purpose of their money, is to
fulfill their goals.
And for Christians, it's just
very different.
It's like they've got their
eyes up on the horizon and
they're they're looking at what
will further the kingdom.
Now, some of those things are
the same things for
non-Christians.
I want to make sure that my
kids get a good education, I
want to make sure that I'm
taking care of in retirement,
but the tone of things is very
different.
And financial planning is
really more about life planning
than it is about finances.
The finances part is easy.
Save, invest, you'll be fine.
You sort of got the summary of
financial planning.
Save, invest, you'll be fine.
The hard part is, the hard part
is figuring out what your life
goals are.
And so figuring out what kinds
of plan, what does God have for
your life, where are you headed,
you know, what's the purpose of
your life, where should you be
spending your time, let alone
your money, on those kinds of
things.
And trying to have that picture
of stewardship, I think, will
help with the other two, that if
you if you can avoid, um, you
will avoid fear and greed and
pride if you have in mind what's
going on with life.
And then finances sort of fall
out from that.
Speaker 2: Dave, you know what
the scripture verse is that says
about the the more you're
given, the more you're expected.
There's a specific scripture
verse in that I can't think of
words.
Speaker: There is.
And Kristan's going to look it
up for me.
I see her over there with her
Palm Pilot.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And that's the idea with
everything that we've been
given.
And this this psalm talks about
wealth and influence, but it's
really anything of value would
fit in into this context and
this theology.
I love I love verse 10.
For he sees that even wise men
die, the stupid and senseless
alike perish.
So those who are foolish and
and those who um Matthew 13.
Speaker 4: But he's talking more
about knowledge of the
internet.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Thank you.
Speaker: Their inner thought is
that the houses are forever and
their dwelling places to all
generations.
They've called lands after
their own names.
But he's talking about, you
know, the people who are famous
enough to have cities named
after them, and you have, you
know, Herodium and all these
cities that he's sort of looking
at in the, you know, in the in
the in the biblical times,
naming a city after you because
you built it up and lavished it,
was, you know, sort of very
common.
You name the city after you,
but um but then later on um it's
your it's your grave that's
your final resting place.
It's it's the it's your grave,
which is your eternal home, not
these cities that you've tried
to name after yourself to get
some kind of a perpetual legacy.
And so you see you see people
trying to have some kind of a
legacy, either by endowing
things, or naming chairs, or uh
creating corporations or
foundations or um or having
books that they've written or
movies they've done, or they
people desperately want.
Something that 50 years from
now people will remember their
name.
Fifty years after they die,
people will remember their name.
They want some kind of a legacy
like that that will last.
And as Christians, we know
there's really only a few things
that will last.
And it's only those things that
are done in love that really
last.
It's the acts of goodness and
kindness and righteousness that
last.
Everything else gets burned up.
And so all the things that the
world thinks will give them an
eternal perspective don't last.
All the things that really do
give an eternal perspective are
the things that the world really
doesn't value that much.
Unless you can be known for it.
You know, if you can be really
generous with your money and
everyone knows you're really
generous with your money, well,
there you go.
If you can, you know, do acts
of kindness and everyone knows
you do acts of kindness and you
win the Nobel Peace Prize for
it, well, there you go.
And most people who are really
concerned about the acts of
kindness are embarrassed if
people know about their acts of
kindness.
They sort of feel like, well,
that ruined that.
You know?
I didn't want people to know if
I was generous.
And much of the process, when
God mean it, there's two ways,
let me just back up, there's two
ways to look at this.
And sermons quite often say,
and yes, you should be generous
and give lots away, and you
should do all these acts of
kindness.
And as you're listening to it,
your head starts going down like
this, and you think to
yourself, I am not going to make
eye contact with that person
because he's just making me feel
so bad.
And I feel awful.
So let me just tell you the
perspective that I have when I
hear a sermon like that, because
it completely changes my
attitude, and that is, I will
tell you that all of us are
tight, white-knuckled, fisted
with our money and our time and
our resources.
All of us are like that.
The amazing thing, the real
amazing thing is that God very
gently relaxes our hand and very
gently starts pulling the
fingers up one by one and
saying, it's okay, you don't
need to hold on to it that much.
I'll take care of you.
And to the point at which he
actually takes us white-fisted
people and makes us people who
actually want to give our money
away.
I mean, that's the gospel is
God is in the process of making
you that kind of a generous
person, that kind of a person
who's not worried about life,
who isn't fearful, that kind of
a person who isn't all concerned
about what's going to go on,
yet at the same time you're
wise, you're good.
And trying to combine those
together.
So when I hear a sermon on this
topic, I always try to think,
and that's the kind of person
that God has promised to make
me.
This isn't up to me to do, this
isn't up to me to engineer.
God will help bring about that
revolution in my mind.
Why?
Because I'm hearing his word,
it's sinking deep.
That's why he starts the first
four verses the way he starts
them, is because he says, this
is deep wisdom that has to sink
in, and you have to recognize
that this wisdom is for you and
has something to say to you, and
this is God speaking to you
directly, and then you start
listening, and you start, and
you start softening that heart a
little bit, and it's up to God
to do that work in our lives.
And sermons like these are just
some of the things that help
show us our lack, show us a
vision for what God's serving in
God's kingdom could look like,
and then brings about change in
our lives.
But it's not up to us to do
that kind of change.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
You were just talking about
verses 10 and 11.
Yeah, notice that the NIV
translates to verse 11
differently.
It says that tombs will remain
their houses forever.
And as you read, it said their
inner thoughts are that their
houses will remain forever.
Speaker: Yeah, uh in verse, in
verse 11, yeah, the the enumeric
standard has their inner
thought is that their houses are
forever.
Um I think the the NIV is
right.
It should read, their tombs
will remain their houses
forever.
So I think that's a better
translation.
unknown: Okay.
Speaker: So there's some
ambiguity in the Hebrew text.
So even the Hebrew scholars
don't know.
But it makes more sense to
think about they've named lands
after themselves, but their tomb
is really their dwelling place
forever.
So yeah, I was trying to find
that in my text, and it's over
on my side because I've got the
NIV in one and the NASV in the
other.
And that's that's sort of an
interesting, I mean I think that
makes sense, and that's sort of
an interesting way of s of
seeing it.
If you trust in material
things, you know, that's your
legacy, is your coffin, and
that's where you'll that's where
you'll be for eternity, because
that's all there is materially.
Um there has to be a God who
resurrects in order to look at
that.
Speaker 3: Well, it seems like
your whole person who's maybe
not a believer and focused very
much on their legacy leading
things that have their name on
it, but it seems like they focus
on that to give their life
meaning in the present.
Right.
Because it seems obvious that
at the point at which they die,
obviously they're no longer
caring about what ha you know,
they cared about what their name
was on while they were alive,
but when you're dead, you don't
care about what your name I
mean, obviously, you don't care
about what your name is on.
Speaker: Yeah.
I've I've I've heard it said
that all of us, that all of us
have two idols in life.
And the the near idol is how do
we how do we live our lives,
how do we function in life, how
do we decide what to do, get up
in the morning, what are we
going to accomplish?
The far idol is the one though
that gives meaning to your life.
And the far idol is what are
you looking for so that your
life in the grand scope of
things actually has meaning.
Now, for Christians, the
challenge is for God, the God,
to be both our near idol and our
far idol, to worship Him in
both aspects.
But money can substitute for
either one of those.
Money can be how you handle
life.
There's a problem.
Throw money at it, solved.
Here's a problem.
Money at it, solved.
And there's lots of problems
you can solve with money, and
with enough money, you can solve
even some big ones.
And then money can also help
buy you that far idol of what
gives meaning to my life.
I'm gonna endow this, I'm going
to name this after me, I'm
going to set up generation
skipping dynasty trusts for my
legacy of my family.
You know, there's there's all
kinds of things you can do in
financial planning and places to
spend your money for goals like
that.
So, yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh, I was going to
say, you know, do it this Woody
Allen quote, he says, uh, I
don't want immortality through
my work, I want immortality
through not dying.
Speaker: Yes, exactly.
Speaker 2: Nothing like the
better one.
Speaker: Yeah.
That was Woody Allen in a Time
magazine, in which he really
talked, he really talked about
the legacy he wanted to leave
and and going on, and and he he
recognized it didn't solve the
biggest problem in life.
I want that immortality by not
dying.
That's that's the real that's
the real goal.
So I think it's good for us to
think through what are our
temptations to look for near and
far idols that way.
How do we manipulate life and
how do we live for having
eternal value and try to keep
those in line and in check.
Um this whole psalm, by the
way, is one of the very, very
clear.
There's like three or four
clear psalms that um talk about
a resurrection, and talk about,
and sometimes people will say,
you know, the Psalms really
don't have that in mind.
I think it's in mind in almost
every Psalm, and there's three
or four like this that are very
clear that there is a
resurrection, and that God
intends to uh to judge the
world, and that we have to live
in light of the fact that God is
going to judge the world, and
he cares about right and wrong,
he cares about good and evil.
That's the only thing that
really matters.
And you sort of add to that,
and we can't be good, therefore
we need Christ's goodness and
the Holy Spirit in our lives
changing us, and you really get
to a very reformed view of
saving faith.
This is the way of those who
are foolish and those who after
them who approve their words.
This is sort of a summary verse
of the entire section.
There's going to be another
summary verse in 20, but in 13,
he's just summarizing the entire
thing, saying, you know, if if
you have this view, or you
approve of having this view, or
you support people who have this
view, you're a fool.
This is, you know, because this
is the this is the end of your
life, it's not going to matter
in the slightest.
Then in 14, we really start
talking about the two destinies.
So if this is what the best
riches can get you, this is this
is how riches are limited, this
is how wealth and power is
limited, then what does that
mean in light of the fact that
there's a judgment?
And there's coming two
destinies, those who've put
their faith in God and those
who've not put their faith in
God, and what will be the
outcome for each one.
And again, just from back from
Drew in the very first one, in a
lot of the Psalms, there's
always in this mind this there's
two destinies.
There's you're either in or
you're out.
There's not a middle ground.
You're either with God or
you're against God.
You're either trusting in him
or you're not trusting in him
completely.
And so there really isn't a
choice of, well, I'll trust him
a little bit, and then the other
things I'll trust in, and
somehow try to mix two religions
together.
And that's the other thing that
I sort of take from this is
that at least in America, we're
very good at mixing Christianity
with other stuff.
So we're very good at taking
our Christian religion and
taking our secular religion in
whatever the aspect and wisdom
that it has, and somehow trying
to find a balance of the two
that merged together feels
comfortable.
And we use God as sort of this
far idol, and we use the world
as our near idol and how to
manipulate things, because
that's easier to get along in
American culture as we do that.
And so you just kind of throw
it open and you say, what would
it look like if?
And you ask those kinds of
questions, and if you have the
courage enough, you can craft a
more biblical view of the way
you as a couple want to approach
your family and your life and
the way you think about things.
And you know that that that can
get very creative.
So part of this is it's very
difficult to look at other
people and say, oh, they're not
following God because they're
not doing it the way I'm doing
it.
God may have very different
callings for each of us.
And for some of us, he may want
us to be handling the main
course, and for some of us, he
may want us to not be handling
the main course, and God in his
calling is very unique in the
way that he works through
people.
So thirteen to the end.
This is the way of those who
are foolish, and of those who
after them who approve their
words.
Then the end.
As sheep they are appointed for
Sheol, death shall be their
shepherd, and the upright shall
rule over them in the morning.
Their form shall be for Sheol
to consume, so that they know
have no habitation.
Um this is talking about death
being their shepherd, um and
their form shall be for Sheol to
consume.
So it's talking about how that
end has has nothing that's with
it.
That end is uh is completely
ephemeral, and therefore don't
be you know don't don't be
sucked into thinking that this
is gonna this is gonna be any
kind of a trust.
But God will redeem my soul
from the power of Sheol, for he
will receive me.
Do not be afraid when a man
becomes rich when the glory of
his house is increased, for when
he dies he will carry away
nothing.
His glory will not descend
after him.
Though while he congrat though
while he lives, he congratulates
himself, and though men praise
you when you do well for
yourself, he shall go to the
generations of his fathers.
They shall never see the light.
Okay.
Again, a lot of this seems sort
of obvious as you read it.
It's it's it's very clear.
Let me see if I can give you
those three principles that are
pulled from this psalm.
You can see it in Jesus' words,
you can see it in James' words.
The first one is yeah, go
ahead.
Speaker 3: Um, you say it seems
obvious, but it didn't to
Pharaoh.
Speaker: No.
Yeah.
And you're right, somehow when
we're living our life, it
doesn't seem obvious.
And that's why I think this is
a reminder psalm.
This is actually a psalm I come
back to a lot when I'm thinking
about wealth and power and
influence and what people really
need and what I really need to
think about, and the way I need
to be handling it.
Because no matter almost no
matter how you handle your time
and your money, you're not quite
sure if you're doing it right.
You're not quite sure if you're
doing what God wants.
Um, because it gets complex and
because you don't trust your
own heart, and because, you
know, there's just so many
things involved in that.
And you know it's one of the
things that um couples fight
about quite a lot.
Um I've heard that 80% of
marital breakups have money as a
primary factor in them.
Because money and time is
really what you value, and most
people, most couples break up
over what they value, and so it
comes out in spending and and
and how they spend their time
and what they value.
So let me go through those
three principles.
The first one is to avoid
greed.
Greed is um greed is wanting
more of this thing just for the
sake of wanting it.
So greed is is trying too hard
to do too many things you
shouldn't be doing to get
something of value.
And fear, fear is the is the
fear that God is not going to
take care of me unless I can
take care of myself.
And so fear will keep you from
doing things, and greed will
make you do things you
shouldn't.
It's the balance back and
forth.
So, I mean, there's a common
stock market thing, you know,
avoid greed and fear.
Fear is the kind of thing that
will keep you out of investing
anything, and greed will put you
all in the one thing that's the
most volatile.
And if you have a more balanced
view of the markets, then
you'll do better in the markets,
so have a more even keel.
Well, the same thing is true in
living life.
If you're greedy for something,
you'll be doing things that you
shouldn't do.
They'll be doing immoral
things.
And if you're fearful, you
won't necessarily be taking even
the risks that God wants you to
take.
And so the real thing is to do
the right thing, not to be a and
avoiding greed and fear will
help keep you from two of the
sins that are very common when
you have something that the
world values in the way you're
handling it.
And pride, pride just wants to
beat your neighbor.
Pride just says, I don't care
what my investments did, just as
long as they were better than
yours.
Because then I can, or better
than some measurement.
However, we're gonna keep
score, I'm better than you, is
sort of the way it says it.
Jesus does the same thing when
he's talking to the Pharisees,
and now I'm not gonna be able to
find it.
He says, um, in fact, he's
talking about finances, and he
says, you've tithed the mint and
the cumin, you've even tithed a
tenth of your herb garden.
You're supposed to tithe a
tenth of everything in the land.
They have this little herb
garden, they're tithing a tenth
of that, and they're saying, see
how good I am, I'm doing
exactly what God wants me to do.
Um And he says, You have um
you've done that, but you've
avoided the more weightier
things in the law, which are um
Justice, mercy, justice, twenty
three.
Matthew twenty-three, justice,
mercy, and faithfulness.
Okay, so if you think about it,
justice, mercy, and
faithfulness are the three
positive components of greed,
fear, and pride.
Um, justice would say you need
to treat people equally.
So it's the opposite of pride,
which would say, hey, if you've
got more of the good stuff, then
you're more important than the
people you don't.
Justice, mercy and
faithfulness.
Faithfulness is the one that
would say, you need to be only
having faith in God.
You need to be trusting only in
God.
That's the opposite of greed,
which really is trusting in the
thing.
You have to get a lot of that
thing in order to be handling
it.
And mercy is the thing that
would say, I need to be generous
and giving away to other
people.
I need to be following that
kind of a lifestyle.
Well, what keeps me from doing
that?
It's usually fear.
I'm afraid if I give it away,
I'm not going to have enough of
the good stuff for myself.
And so justice, mercy, and
faithfulness are the three
positive aspects of greed, fear,
and pride.
Does that make sense?
Again, that's it's it's sort of
two sides.
You can help hedge yourself by
looking at the things you
shouldn't be doing, and you can
look at the positive things you
should be doing, treating
everyone equally as valuable in
the sight of God, um, and being
generous and trusting only in
God.
I heard another good quote.
We should trust in God and use
things.
Too often we use God and trust
in things.
So it's kind of that it's kind
of that reverse.
God becomes just something that
we use to get through our lives
and to provide that kind of
meaning.
So again, practice stewardship,
be generous, and respect
calling, that people's callings
are different.
Other questions or comments?
Yeah.
Speaker 1: It seems like Satan
can use any of those things
where you can take pride in
whatever it is.
Like I'm proud of being so
generous, like you said.
Speaker: Exactly.
Speaker 1: And it's that's so
hard.
Speaker: Exactly.
Yeah, you can be proudful of
what of of of how much you've
given or anything else like
that.
And it's very har it's very
hard to know where your heart's
at.
Actually, I know where my
heart's at.
My heart's evil.
You know, if I'm generous, I
want everyone to know about it,
and and that's just evil.
So the total depravity of man
doesn't mean we're totally
depraved.
It means we're depraved in
everything we do, and everything
we do, our motives are not
pure.
We're not quite the people we
should be.
The good news is, though, I I
know what I've been like, and I
know areas where I look at
myself and think, I wouldn't
have done that before.
God is softening my heart.
And it's encouraging sometimes
to see the direction of your
life, because it's very
discouraging to see the missing,
how far you've missed the bar,
but to see the general direction
where God is making you more
humble, more willing to be
generous, less wanting to be
known for it.
You know, again, we still want
to be known for it, but just to
see it, him dampening down that
a little bit is very helpful.
So, yeah, I kind of hate those
sermons, be perfect.
Yeah, just it's like, okay,
that was really not a helpful
sermon.
You know, that just you know
that didn't I knew how far I
fell already, so just you know,
to make me realize I'm just
grimy into the dust.
That's not that's that's not
encouraging.
But to turn it around and say,
when you hear a sermon, so when
you hear a sermon, be perfect, I
always sort of translate it in
my head, God has promised you
will be perfect.
And then I think, oh gosh,
that's such a beautiful vision.
I'm I'm encouraged.
That's where God's that's where
God's taking me.
Um it's kind of nice to know
where the final destination is
because we're not because we're
so far from it, and that the
coming land.
Yeah, other questions,
comments, yeah.
Speaker 6: That's one thing I'm
thinking about here, and you
touched on it that you know,
time and money are the things
that you know you sort of try to
hoard.
And so we've been talking a lot
on the financial side on this,
on the money side, but how does
this apply to the time side in
in your life too?
Because I know you know a
struggle that we've talked about
is you know, is it a lot easier
to write a check for something
instead of giving three hours a
week to do that?
And so does that make me an
awful person, or is that just
everybody has a role, so that
happens to be my disposition?
Speaker: Yeah, and and and
that's and that's a great
comment.
And also, just you know, to
take it back to personally in
town here.
In town here, it's a badge of
honor to say I'm I'm just so
busy.
That's just, oh, you're so
busy.
Well, that makes mean you're an
important person.
It's just, and and quite often,
you know, that's we say that to
each other at Trinity a lot.
I'm just so busy.
And that's okay.
I've tried not to say that as
much just because I, you know,
in my heart it's sort of a cop
out, and I and as I say it a
lot.
You will still hear me say that
a lot.
But I've I've tried not to say
that as much, and I've tried to
make better decisions with my
time.
Um sometimes I'm busy because
I'm greedy.
I just want more of the good
stuff.
And trying to figure out what
your life should look like, you
know, is is a really difficult
and how you spend your time is
really difficult.
Um and I have teenage kids, and
you know, if they have a
problem, it's an hour and a half
later, and we're still talking,
and and it's good.
I'm glad my kids will talk to
me about the things that are
going on in their life.
Um, but it's clear your
schedule and and what's more
important.
And too often I'm I'm busy.
I know I've got stuff here I
need to do, I'm working on, and
and I'm putting the less
important things to get more
good stuff in front of the
really important things that
it's clear anyone could do the
tasks that I'm doing, but
there's only one man who can be
the father of my children.
And if they need a father,
well, I'm I'm it.
You know, if if they can't come
to me, there's there there's
nothing there left.
You know, and it's good they
have two parents, but it but
it's still, you know, but it's
still, it's those kinds of
decisions that you sort of face
into and you think, okay, how
much is my view of how I should
be spending my time really
influenced by the corporate sort
of frenetic race and how much
of it is building a lifestyle
that you want to build.
And you know, sometimes you
have control over that, and
sometimes you don't think you
have control, but you really
have control.
It has to do with the house
you've bought and the job you've
decided to take, and you can
get trapped in things like that.
I heard Ken Elzinger on a talk
recently, and he said, you know,
he a few of his top students
are now off making um you know
huge salaries with huge houses
and they hate their life.
And you look at that and you
think, golly, you know, but
that's the the path I was
supposed to take to be
successful, and I've I'm now I'm
Now a great success and I'm
financially well off and I don't
have two minutes to rub
together and I hate my life.
You know, it's just and you
stop thinking, well, what's
really important?
What's really important is is
feeling the pleasure you have
when you know that you're doing
what God has called you to do.
You know, I always go back to
um, you know, to the to the
movie of Eric Little and uh and
Chariots of Fire.
Do you feel God's pleasure when
you're doing what you're doing?
Well, maybe you're not doing
the right thing if you don't.
And maybe you need to rethink
about what God's calling is.
And, you know, I'm I'm like
that.
I'm I remember I was trying to
change my major in college, and
I felt like a failure just to
change my major in college
because I was on this path and I
was going to complete this
path, even though I didn't think
I should be completing that
path.
I thought I should just be
moving a little bit.
And for me, it was moving from
physics to mechan physics to
mechanical engineering was was
was the one I was, you know, and
you were all going, you know,
what's the difference?
You know.
But but my but my dad was
really proud of the fact I was
in sciences, and I really wanted
to please him, and he was
really proud of the fact I was
in this, you know, physics
program and stuff like that.
I finally went to my dad and I
said, Dad, you know, I'm
thinking about changing majors,
but I I'm afraid I'm gonna
disappoint you.
And that was his response was,
and what's the difference?
Okay.
And at that point I realized
how stupid I am.
You know, I just I just didn't
realize that.
So then when I changed from
mechanical to electrical
engineering, I was like, okay,
he's not gonna know what this
difference is either.
So but you know, we get caught
we get caught in that.
We get caught in thinking we've
got to do one thing and uh and
not another.
Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then I know we
didn't have time to go into
this, but we need each other to
have any of this thing happen.
We all have idle, or all our
hearts are idle factories and
without each other.
Speaker: Yeah.
Yeah, and and I will tell you
that that my Odyssey has been
incredibly influenced by strong
Christians I know and admire at
Trinity.
You know, and some of them I
have never talked to about this,
but I watch them, and I just
watch their example.
So, you know, Ken Elsing is one
of them.
I watch Ken Elsing, and I just
look at his life, and and in
that regard, I'm really glad
that every now and then he lets
slip some of the things he does
just because he is such a neat
example, and I've sort of tried
to emulate him on several
things.
I really like that about the
Christian community.
So I see other people and
they're generous in opening
their homes and and they're you
know they're they're you know
providing opportunities for
people to to fellowship and and
stuff like that, and I think,
God, that's really good, you
know.
And so yeah, it you know, the
things that we're stingy in, God
very gradually loosens us up
and and changes our hearts.
So I I didn't I didn't want
this to be a, you know, and you
should be perfect type of a
talk.
And I think the gospel is
really different than that.
This is what we will be like,
this is what God is is changing
us and influencing us on.
Great.
Let me pray.
God, we thank you so much that
you are the kind of a God who
takes us and makes us people of
such um of such beauty that we
impact and influence the people
around us, and that you have
promised us that you will make
us perfect, that you will make
us the kind of people who handle
the things that you've given us
well, that um that practice
that kind of stewardship, that
are generous, and that um that
know our calling from you, and
have the confidence and courage
to live it.
We pray uh in the coming few
weeks that as things come up,
you would remind us uh of this
message and help us to navigate
the things you've thrown at us
in life in a way that's pleasing
to you.
And we pray that you would
soften our hearts, allow these
words to sink deep and to be at
work in our spirits.
In Jesus' name, amen.