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Krisan Marotta: Welcome to the
Wednesday in the Word podcast.
I'm Krisan Marotta, and this is
my podcast about what the Bible
means and how we know.
This is the 34th talk in our
series on the Gospel of Matthew,
and the fourth out of five
talks on the Lord's Prayer.
Today we're going to study
Matthew chapter 6, verses 12
through 15.
Lecture notes for today's talk
are on the link below the
podcast.
Those lecture notes contain an
outline of the main points and
links to everything mentioned in
the talk.
You can go there directly by
going to the website
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Matthew 3 4.
While you're there, you can
find all previous episodes in
this series on the Gospel of
Matthew on
wednesdayintheword.com and you
can find many other series there
as well.
Thank you so much for
listening.
We are almost done with our
study on the Lord's Prayer from
the Gospel of Matthew.
We'll have one more next week.
Just to review where we are,
this prayer falls in the third
major section of the Sermon on
the Mount.
Jesus began this third section
by saying in Matthew 6 1, Beware
of practicing your
righteousness before other
people in order to be seen by
them, for then you will have no
reward from your Father who is
in heaven.
He then gave three parallel
examples, and each of these
three is a traditional Jewish
religious practice, giving to
the poor, praying, and fasting.
In each case Jesus describes
how the hypocrites perform these
practices, and in each case he
repeats the statement, Truly I
say to you, they have received
their reward in full.
The hypocrites are hoping that
other people will see how
religious and pious they are and
respond positively and
graciously to them.
They are not looking for a
reward from God, they're looking
for the reward of the approval
of their peers, and they have
that reward in full.
In the middle of this section,
in his second example, Jesus
breaks away to talk more about
prayer, and that breakaway
includes the Lord's Prayer.
Jesus sets up the Lord's Prayer
by warning about two very
common perversions of prayer.
One is using prayer as a tool
to gain the worldly approval of
others rather than seeking the
approval of God.
That's what the hypocrites are
doing.
The other is using prayer as a
tool to manipulate God into
giving you worldly gain in this
life, which is what he says the
Gentiles are doing.
I have argued that it was
common at the time for rabbis to
teach their disciples a prayer
that encapsulated their main
teaching, and that's what we
have here.
Jesus criticizes the way the
hypocrites and the Gentiles
approach prayer, then he gives a
counterexample, a prayer that
models and embodies the right
way of thinking about prayer and
which then captures his main
teaching.
I've argued that this prayer is
for one thing and one thing
only, and that is for God to
establish his kingdom.
Thy kingdom come is the main
point which is echoed in each
line, and it is asking God to
make us completely righteous
once and for all and to
establish his kingdom on earth.
Each of the petitions in the
prayer involves an act of God.
The first three focus on God
bringing his holiness to the
entire world, and the second
three focus on God bringing his
holiness to his people, to us as
individuals.
And I have been giving you a
wooden literal translation of
the prayer to help you step back
and think about the meaning and
also to see the poetry of it.
So my literal translation of
the first half is our Father who
is in heaven, let it be holy
thy name, let it come thy
kingdom, let it be done, thy
will on earth as it is in
heaven.
And all of those are praying
for one thing, for the kingdom
of God to come, for God to bring
the day when no one dismisses,
rejects, or curses him anymore,
and instead everyone recognizes
that he is God and He is holy.
For God to establish His
promised kingdom through the
Messiah ruling over all the
earth, and to bring that day
when all evil is vanquished and
this world finally reflects
God's commitment to holiness,
righteousness, and justice.
That's really the request of
this prayer.
Please bring that.
May we see the day when your
name is vindicated as holy, when
your kingdom is established
through the Messiah, and when
your will is truly implemented
over all the earth.
The second three requests focus
on God giving his holiness to
his people.
Give us this day our daily
bread, and I argued that that is
metaphorically the bread of
life.
Give us the bread that doesn't
run out, the bread of tomorrow,
the bread that sustains our
souls and not just our physical
bodies.
Then forgive us our debts as we
have also forgiven our debtors,
and lead us not into
temptation, but deliver us from
evil.
Now last week we looked at the
problem of the word translated
daily and give us this day our
daily bread.
The problem is we don't really
know what this word daily means
and there's a lot of debate over
it.
I organize that debate into two
main different strands of
thought, one literal and one
metaphorical.
Either this request
acknowledges that God is the
sustainer of life and is asking
for literal bread for the
provisions of life.
That's the literal
understanding, or the
understanding I opted for, which
is more metaphorical, that this
is a request for the bread of
life, not literal wheat bread,
but a request for God to give us
the metaphorical bread that
will sustain our souls and is
what we really need.
As I said in the last podcast,
both the literal and the
metaphorical interpretations
have merit.
Both make sense in the context,
both teach a truth that is
taught elsewhere in Scripture,
and as I covered in detail in
the last podcast, I don't think
we have enough evidence at this
point to entirely rule one out
or the other in.
Today I want to look at the
next petition of the prayer, and
let me read that for you
starting in Matthew six nine.
Pray then like this, our Father
in heaven, hallowed be your
name.
Your kingdom come, your will be
done on earth as it is in
heaven.
Give us this day our daily
bread, and forgive us our debts,
as we also have forgiven our
debtors, and lead us not into
temptation, but deliver us from
evil.
For if you forgive others their
trespasses, your heavenly
Father will also forgive you.
But if you do not forgive
others their trespasses, neither
will your Father forgive your
trespasses.
So we're really gonna focus on
six twelve, forgive us our debts
as we have also forgiven our
debtors.
Next week we're gonna come back
and talk about what it means
for God not to lead us into
temptation.
So we're gonna look at the
surrounding verses about
forgiveness today.
Luke's version has forgive us
our sins as we forgive everyone
who is indebted to us.
Luke uses the words sins and
debtors.
Matthew uses the word debt, but
then he uses the word
trespasses or transgressions in
614 and 15.
The authors seem to be using
these three words
interchangeably sins, debts, and
trespasses.
Matthew's word typically refers
to unfulfilled obligations
toward God and our fellow human
beings.
So that is things that we ought
to have done, but we did not.
Luke's word typically refers to
things that we did that we
should not have done.
So failing to fulfill what God
requires is a debt.
Failure to do the right thing
or doing the wrong thing is a
trespass or a sin.
The difference in translation
between Matthew and Luke
probably results from an Aramaic
word that means both.
Like English, Greek expresses
those ideas with separate words.
But Aramaic has one word that
expresses both ideas.
And that's probably the word
Jesus used, which then posed a
difficulty for the translators.
Now, if we think about it, a
debt is something that is owed.
It can refer to a financial
obligation, but it is often
something moral.
So I can owe someone money, I
can owe someone respect, and I
can owe someone an apology.
And in all those cases, you
could say I have a debt to that
person.
In English, the word ought is
derived from the word owe.
I ought to pay you the money I
owe.
I ought to help you with your
chores.
I ought to do the right thing.
In that last example, it refers
to right and wrong without
referring to a specific person
who is owed something.
So I ought to eat better, I
ought to stop worrying, I ought
to do the right thing.
Well, the Greek word group that
we've translated debt here has
those same nuances.
Sometimes it means to owe
money, sometimes it talks about
how we ought to do what is
right.
And I think in this context,
the sense is forgive those
things which we ought to have
done but didn't, and forgive us
those things which we did but we
should not have done, just as
we do the same for others.
And we could sum all that up as
sin.
The concept of sin should be
very familiar to Christians, but
increasingly today, well at
least in America, it's a concept
increasingly downplayed or
banished from Sunday mornings.
In response to this idea of sin
disappearing from churches
today, the late R.
C.
Spurl wrote a book called Saved
From What?
Because people didn't realize
what they were being saved from.
I find the lack of talk about
sin on Sunday mornings very
perplexing.
I suspect the concept of sin
comes up in probably every
single one of my over 500
podcasts.
I would be surprised if it
isn't mentioned at least once
somewhere along the line in each
and every podcast.
Because sin is explicit in so
many passages of Scripture and
it is implied in virtually all
the rest.
The forgiveness of sin is one
of the most central themes in
the biblical worldview.
It starts from the very
beginning of Genesis and runs
all the way through the end of
Revelation.
The entire Bible involves this
basic idea.
God is our creator and the only
source of life and blessing.
There's no place else to go
that we can find what we truly
need.
We have all done evil and
turned away from God.
The only way we will ever find
eternal life and blessing is if
God chooses to forgive us.
That's the story of the Bible.
The Bible starts with creation.
God creates the world, he
creates human beings.
Almost immediately the story
turns to how human beings rebel
against God.
We come under His judgment and
His wrath.
We're expelled from the garden,
and we now die and suffer and
strive and live in futility and
corruption in this life.
As a result of our sin, our
daily existence is now governed
and marked by sin, suffering,
and death.
And that's part of the judgment
of God.
We are living under the
judgment of God from the day we
are born.
Unless He is merciful, none of
us will find life and blessing.
And we could look at hundreds
of passages to make this point.
Let me just give you a few.
God uses Moses to lead the
Israelites out of bondage in
Egypt.
And what do they do?
They turn around and start
worshiping a golden calf.
And after that event of
worshiping the golden calf,
Moses returns to the mountain to
talk to God, and we find this,
this is in Exodus thirty four,
verses five through seven, and
this is God speaking of himself
to Moses.
The Lord descended in the cloud
and stood with him there and
proclaimed the name of the Lord.
The Lord passed before him and
proclaimed The Lord, the Lord, a
God merciful and gracious, slow
to anger and abounding in
steadfast love and faithfulness,
keeping steadfast love for
thousands, forgiving iniquity
and transgression and sin, but
who will by no means clear the
guilty, visiting the iniquity of
the fathers on the children and
the children's children to the
third and the fourth generation.
Now this is all part of the
covenant that God enters into
with Israel in response to this
terrible idolatry of the golden
calf.
And even as they face his
wrath, God reminds them that he
is a God who forgives sins.
He says forgiving iniquity,
transgression, and sin.
He is also a God who punishes
iniquity, and we start to see
that it makes a difference
whether you're the sort of
sinner who is willing to confess
and acknowledge that you have
done wrong, or you're the sort
of sinner who refuses to confess
and considers his wrongs
justified.
We could look at the entire
sacrificial system that's
centered on the idea of our need
for forgiveness.
The day of atonement is focused
on the forgiveness of sins.
On that day the high priest
makes an offering for the sins
of the people.
We could go on and on.
This idea of forgiveness of
sins is very important to King
David.
It plays a large role in his
story and the Psalms he writes.
Let me give you one example.
This is Psalm thirty two,
starting in verse one.
Blessed is the one whose
transgression is forgiven, whose
sin is covered.
Blessed is the man against whom
the Lord counts no iniquity,
and in whose spirit there is no
deceit.
For when I kept silent, my
bones wasted away through my
groaning all day long.
For day and night your hand was
heavy upon me, my strength was
dried up as by the heat of
summer.
Sale.
I acknowledged my sin to you,
and I did not cover my iniquity.
I said, I will confess my
transgressions to the Lord, and
you forgave the iniquity of my
sin.
David is saying, Blessed are
you if God forgives your sin,
and that forgiveness results
from confessing your sins before
him.
We can go on and look at many,
many more Old Testament
passages.
When we get to the New
Testament, and Jesus starts
talking about the forgiveness of
sins, he is speaking of an idea
rich with Old Testament
background.
It's not a new idea.
We cannot find life unless God
forgives us our sins, and he
won't forgive us unless we come
to him and confess that we are
sinners who need his mercy.
That's a clear picture that
emerges from the Old Testament,
and Jesus isn't saying anything
different.
So when Jesus includes in the
Lord's Prayer, forgive us our
debts as we have forgiven our
debtors, this is not a request
like help me find a job or tell
me which college to go to.
This is a confession.
We are confessing that we have
done evil and turned away from
God.
If God is not merciful, we will
perish.
We are asking for his mercy.
The sincere call from the heart
for God's mercy is one of the
fundamental marks of a believer.
It is not at all surprising
that Jesus would include it in
his model prayer.
What is perhaps surprising is
the second part.
Jesus is so emphatic about this
connection between being
forgiven and forgiving that
after the prayer is over, he
continues talking about the
issue.
Interestingly, these words
about forgiveness are the only
part of the prayer that he
comments on afterward.
It would have been nice if he'd
explained what he meant by
daily bread, but he doesn't.
He lets the rest of the prayer
stand on its own, and the only
thing he expands on is this
connection between being
forgiven and forgiving others.
Look at Matthew six, fourteen
and fifteen again.
For if you forgive others their
trespasses, your heavenly
father will also forgive you.
But if you do not forgive
others their trespasses, neither
will your father forgive your
trespasses.
You'll remember, if you've been
listening to this series, that
this is not the first time in
the Sermon on the Mount that
Jesus has talked about this
connection between forgiving and
being forgiven.
In the Beatitudes we talked
about how forgiveness is an
integral part of saving faith.
And if you want to review that,
just listen to my podcast on
Matthew 5 7.
Blessed are the merciful, for
they shall receive mercy.
This concept comes up in the
rest of Jesus' teaching, and it
shows up in some significant
places in his teaching.
For example, this is Mark 11
25, and whenever you stand
praying, forgive if you have
anything against anyone, so that
your Father also who is in
heaven may forgive you your
trespasses.
Jesus gives what I think is his
most complete teaching on this
connection between being a
forgiving person and being
forgiven yourself in the parable
of the unforgiving servant,
which is in Matthew 18.
In this parable, a servant owes
his master a great debt.
The debt is so large he has no
hope of paying it back.
And at first the master is
willing to forgive the servant
his debt.
But then when the master learns
that the servant is unwilling
to forgive someone else a much,
much smaller debt, the master
changes his mind and refuses to
forgive the servant.
Jesus ends the parable this
way, this is Matthew eighteen,
thirty two through thirty five.
Then his master summoned him
and said to him, You wicked
servant, I forgave you all that
debt because you pleaded with
me, and should not you have had
mercy on your fellow servant as
I had mercy on you?
And in his anger the master
delivered him to the jailers
until he should pay all his
debt.
So also my heavenly Father will
do to every one of you if you
do not forgive your brother from
your heart.
Well that's very sobering
language.
Just as the master in the story
lacked mercy, so God will be
unmerciful to us if we do not
forgive our brothers and sisters
from our hearts.
The New Testament continues
this same theme.
We see it in Paul's letters,
this is Ephesians four thirty
two.
Be kind to one another, tender
hearted, forgiving one another
as God in Christ forgave you.
And Colossians three twelve,
put on then as God's chosen
ones, holy and beloved,
compassionate hearts, kindness,
humility, meekness, and
patience, bearing with one
another, and if one has a
complaint against another,
forgiving each other as the Lord
has forgiven you, so you also
must forgive.
And James says in two hundred
thirteen, for judgment is
without mercy to the one who has
shown no mercy.
Mercy triumphs over judgment.
Well that's pretty stark and
sobering language.
Now we've talked about this
concept before in the
Beatitudes, but finding this
idea in the prayer raises at
least three questions that I
want to try to answer.
First, why are these ideas
connected?
How can our salvation be
dependent on whether or not we
forgive others?
Is this some kind of exception
to the saved by faith alone
rule?
So faith plus the This one work
of forgiveness.
Second, why would Jesus include
this idea in the Lord's Prayer?
What does that tell us about
how we should pray?
And then third, what does this
look like in real life?
What does it mean in practical
terms to forgive those who sin
against us?
Well, to answer those
questions, I want to take a
little closer look at the
parable of the unforgiving
servant in Matthew eighteen.
Now I do have a podcast on this
parable, which I'll link to in
the lecture notes.
The podcast covers the parable
in much more detail, and you can
find that on
wednesdayintheword.com slash
Matthew three four.
I'm going to read Matthew
eighteen verses twenty one
through thirty five.
Then Peter came up and said to
him, Lord, how often will my
brother sin against me and I
forgive him, as many as seven
times?
Jesus said to him, I do not say
to you seven times, but seventy
seven times.
Therefore the kingdom of heaven
may be compared to a king who
wished to settle accounts with
his servants.
When he began to settle, one
was brought to him who owed him
ten thousand talents.
And since he could not pay, his
master ordered him to be sold,
with his wife and children, and
all that he had and payment to
be made.
So the servant fell on his
knees, imploring him, have
patience with me and I will pay
you everything.
And out of pity for him the
master of that servant released
him and forgave him the debt.
But when that same servant went
out, he found one of his fellow
servants who owed him a hundred
denarii, and seizing him he
began to choke him, saying, Pay
what you owe.
So his fellow servant fell down
and pleaded with him, have
patience with me and I will pay
you.
He refused, and went and put
him in prison until he should
pay the debt.
When his fellow servants saw
what had taken place, they were
greatly distressed, and they
went and reported to their
master all that had taken place.
Then his master summoned him
and said to him, You wicked
servant, I forgave you all that
debt because you pleaded with
me, and should not you have had
mercy on your fellow servant as
I had mercy on you?
And in anger his master
delivered him to the jailers
until he should pay all his
debt.
So also my heavenly Father will
do to every one of you if you
do not forgive your brother from
your heart.
The servant had what ought to
have been a life changing
experience.
He owed an impossible debt to
his master.
He owed so much that it was
mathematically impossible for
him to ever repay it.
The servant asks the master to
have patience with him until he
can repay, but the servant is
really saying that only out of
desperation because he has no
realistic hope of ever paying
off this debt.
The result of this debt is that
the servant stood to lose
everything, including his wife,
his children, and all his
property, and there is nothing
he can do about it.
He owes the money, he can't pay
it back.
Yet the master did much more
than the servant asked.
The master didn't give him
extra time to pay the money
back, the master forgave the
entire debt, and that's a
miracle.
This life destroying, crushing
burden has been lifted from the
servant because of the
compassionate mercy of the
master.
And the master lost a huge
amount of money in the deal, but
he did it out of compassion for
his servant.
If anyone in the world should
understand how precious mercy
is, it is this servant.
Yet what does he do?
He turns around and refuses to
forgive a relatively small debt
that his friend owes him.
The master is outraged that the
servant does not seem to
understand or value the gift
that the master gave him, so the
master revokes his mercy and
demands payment of the debt.
The servant is involved in
these two situations that are
mirror images of each other.
The servant owes money to the
master and a friend owes money
to the servant.
Yet the servant doesn't seem
willing to acknowledge the
similarity between those two
situations.
When he looks at his friend, he
does not see someone in the
same situation as himself.
That pleading look in his
friend's eyes should have
reminded him of his own pleading
before the master, but it
doesn't.
And how can that be?
How can he have forgotten the
incredible gift that his master
gave him?
And that's basically what the
master asks in 1833.
Shouldn't you have done for him
what I did for you?
You owed a terrible debt and I
forgave you.
This friend owed you a
minuscule amount which he could
easily have repaid with a little
patience.
Because of my mercy, your life
was restored to you.
Why didn't that mean anything
to you?
Why would you turn around and
demand payment from your friend?
If you think it's beneath you
to forgive people who owe you
money, well okay, the debt
stands, pay me everything.
Now when we read this parable,
at first we're outraged by the
servant.
How can he be so cruel and
callous?
But a week later, it doesn't
seem so unreasonable.
The sad fact is all of us are
tempted to live by the same
double standard.
We are all in favor of mercy
when we are the ones who need
it.
But when we're the ones who
need to give mercy, then we
often change our tune.
We want our friends to show us
mercy when we have done them
wrong, but when our friends do
us wrong, our first reaction is
we want an apology and we want
justice.
Because in both cases, what
we're really interested in is
how does this benefit me?
When I owe you, I want you to
be merciful.
When you owe me, I want you to
pay me everything back.
Because in both cases I want
the outcome that is to my
benefit.
In one sense then the servant's
actions are very
understandable, but in another
sense we recognize how terribly
he's acted.
And what clues us into that is
the exaggerated scale of the
debt he owes versus the tiny
amount that is owed to him.
If the servant were at all
honest, he would see the problem
too.
His debt was huge, vast and
immense.
He stood to lose everything,
and there was nothing he could
do about it.
Yet he was saved by the
generous and merciful compassion
of his master.
He should be staggered by the
value and the beauty of mercy as
he personally has experienced
it in the way his master dealt
with him.
When his friend approaches him
with this minuscule debt, at
this point in the servant's life
mercy should be more precious
to him than gold and silver.
The thing that should be on his
mind and in his thoughts and on
his heart is the value and
beauty of mercy as he has just
experienced it.
Now that puts us in a position
to answer my three questions.
First, how could our salvation
be dependent on whether or not
we forgive others?
Well, as we talked about with
the Beatitudes, part of saving
faith is recognizing that I am a
sinner.
Part of saving faith is
recognizing that God owes me
nothing, I have done nothing
that requires Him to forgive me,
and I will only be forgiven
because of the blood of Christ
and God's mercy and grace.
Our sin is equivalent to the
servant's debt.
We are guilty before a holy God
and there is nothing we can do
about it by ourselves.
We stand to lose everything
unless God is merciful to us.
That is a true fact of the
universe, whether you believe it
or not.
We have earned God's wrath and
there is nothing we can do to
escape it.
Yet we have been forgiven
because of the blood of Jesus
Christ and the generous and
merciful compassion of God.
We should be staggered by the
power and the value and the
beauty of mercy as proclaimed to
us on the cross.
How much bigger can it get?
We deserve destruction and
condemnation and we are being
granted eternal life instead.
God is overlooking what I
deserve and giving me the very
best possible thing in the
entire universe.
And that's what the gospel is
all about.
To believers, this idea of sin
is not theoretical and it's not
hypothetical.
We know it's true.
We live it every day.
To believers, the concept of
mercy is not theoretical either.
We are staking our eternal
souls on it.
God in His mercy and grace has
given us the eyes to see and
embrace this truth.
The longer we live, the more we
understand how much we need
God's mercy and how sweet the
promise of eternal life is.
We ought to be impressed by the
power and the value and the
beauty of mercy because we have
been forgiven an incredibly
immense debt.
When it comes to living my
life, mercy ought to
increasingly become more
important to me than gold and
silver and holding a grudge.
We grow in our understanding of
the value of mercy and
compassion and we grow in our
willingness to show it to
others.
Yes, the process is messy.
We've all been put in
situations where it's difficult
for us to forgive.
Forgiveness does not mean that
we sweep evil under the rug.
Evil is still evil, wrong is
still wrong, but we are learning
the overwhelming value of
mercy.
We will not consistently,
perfectly, or courageously
always show mercy in every
situation.
We're going to fail and stumble
along the way.
But as we grow in faith, we
grow in how much we value mercy
and how willing we are to be
merciful.
Now, as I said, the process can
be messy, but over time and
through the work of the Holy
Spirit, God's compassion
inspires us to be compassionate
ourselves.
The connection between
forgiving and being forgiven
then is that once we realize how
sinful we are and how
exceedingly valuable God's mercy
and compassion are, that
teaches me the value of mercy so
that I can be compassionate and
merciful to others.
Once I realize just how deeply
I am indebted to God's grace and
how dependent I am on His
mercy, I realize I have no right
to condemn someone else for
what they've done to me.
After all, what sin could
anyone else commit that I
haven't done or wouldn't do
myself given half the chance?
In other words, I can't really
be a person who is poor in
spirit and mourning over my sins
if I look at other sinners and
think that somehow I'm better
than they are.
I deserve something they don't.
Well, how can I think that I
deserve mercy in a way that they
do not?
If I refuse to forgive, it
suggests that I have not yet
understood my own sinfulness,
and that's an integral part of
saving faith.
Second, then, why would Jesus
include this idea in the Lord's
Prayer?
What does this tell us about
how we should pray?
I think the easiest way to
answer that question is to
imagine that Jesus had not
included the second half of this
verse.
Imagine that the prayer went,
give us our daily bread, forgive
us our debts, and lead us not
into temptation.
Or imagine the parable of the
unforgiving servant where it
ended early and did not include
the second part.
Suppose the parable ends with
the master forgiving the servant
and that's the end of the
story.
Well, what have we learned
about the servant in that story
if it ended early?
We haven't really learned
anything.
We might assume he was
grateful, we might assume he
understood the reality of his
situation, but we wouldn't
really know for sure.
It's only when the servant
encounters the situation of
forgiving someone else that we
learn something about his
character.
When he's put in the situation
of being the one who must grant
forgiveness, we learn that the
servant does not really
understand the gift he's been
given.
We see that he has not learned
or understood the value of mercy
at all.
He's still thinking in terms of
what's going to benefit me.
Likewise, we could imagine
people praying forgive us our
sins who haven't yet really
learned the depth of their own
sins.
They could pray this prayer
without understanding what it
means or what they're really
asking for.
The most self righteous
Pharisee of the day could agree
and say, yeah, we should all
pray for the forgiveness of
sins, not that I have any worth
mentioning as a good Pharisee,
but you know, it's still a good
thing to pray about.
And after all those tax
gatherers and prostitutes, they
need to learn a thing or two
about sin.
How would we know what the
Pharisee meant by praying for
the forgiveness of sins?
Like the servant in the
parable, we don't really have a
clue what's on his heart until
he faces a situation where he's
asked to show mercy.
By including this language,
forgive us our sins as we
forgive others, I think Jesus is
confronting us with the issue
of what we really mean by such a
prayer.
He's telling us, reminding us,
you know that sense of betrayal
and hurt you feel when someone
sins against you?
You know how you quite
rightfully feel the full force
of their evil and it hits you in
the gut like this was wrong,
this was bad.
You should have that same
reaction when you're the one
committing the evil or doing
wrong.
In fact, that person's sins
against you are minuscule when
compared with your sins against
God.
When you pray for forgiveness,
I want you to look into the eyes
of those who have sinned
against you, and I want you to
think, yes, my sins are just
like that.
I need mercy just as they need
mercy.
I know how beautiful the mercy
of God is, and I know that other
person needs mercy as well.
I am in no position to demand
justice from them.
So if we pray for forgiveness
and we think about how it
includes forgiving others, it
forces us to confront the
reality of our own situation, of
our own sinfulness and our own
need for forgiveness and how
much God has forgiven.
So it forces us to truly grasp
the depth of our own sin and the
value of the mercy that God has
shown us.
Third, what does this look like
in real life?
What does it mean in practical
terms to forgive those who sin
against us?
Well, we're asking God to
forgive us as we forgive others.
So let's think about what it
means for God to forgive us.
It means that in spite of our
sins, we retain his goodwill.
It means that in spite of our
sins, he acts to bring about
good things for us.
That's basically what it looks
like when we forgive others.
It looks like loving our
neighbors as ourselves.
Now we have already answered
this question many times as
we've studied this sermon.
Like the rest of this sermon,
or much of the rest of it, I
think this too finds its roots
in Leviticus 19.
Love your neighbor as yourself.
And Jesus has drawn on this
principle throughout the sermon.
Loving our neighbor is acting
to bring about good things for
our neighbor.
This has both internal and
external aspects.
Likewise, forgiving those who
sin against us has both internal
and external aspects.
We forgive them internally by
not hating them, not rejecting
them, and not condemning them.
We pray for them and we seek in
our hearts what is good for
them.
Externally, we forgive them by
acting toward them in a way that
seeks their good in spite of
how they've treated us.
As we've talked about several
times over these podcasts, it's
not always easy to decide how to
respond in a specific situation
where someone is treating you
badly.
It can be very difficult to
sort out how to forgive a
specific person in a specific
situation.
But you might loan it to a
friend who's unemployed.
It can be really complicated to
figure out what love looks like
in any given situation.
While it's easy to make
mistakes in practice, the
principle is clear.
We are not to hate someone just
because they hate us or
mistreat us.
We are to pray for them and act
for their good.
Let me try to summarize this
then to close us out.
Believers must come to terms
with the fundamental truth.
We are sinners.
When I look at someone who has
sinned against me, am I willing
to see someone just like me?
Am I willing to acknowledge
that I have sinned just as much
as the person who wronged me?
Am I willing to admit that I
myself am a sinner?
I myself need God to be
merciful to me just as this
person needs me to be merciful
to them.
One day we will stand before
our Creator, and we will deserve
condemnation and eternal death
because of our sin.
What we need most is for God to
forgive us and rescue us from
our sin.
That's what the kingdom of God
is all about.
The kingdom of God begins when
God sends His Messiah to
establish His kingdom on earth
as it is in heaven.
This prayer is a request for
God to make us holy and to free
us from all sin.
The first three requests have
to do with God establishing His
holiness over all the world and
over all creation.
The last three are a request
for God to make me the believer
holy.
The Beatitudes taught us the
four convictions of saving
faith, knowing that I am sinful,
longing to be made holy,
knowing I am unworthy of God's
blessing and He owes me nothing,
and trusting that God will
forgive me and save me because
of the blood of Jesus Christ.
As these convictions grow in
believers, then believers will
come to feel compassion for
other sinners and show them the
same mercy that they have
received.
And this is a request for that
very thing to happen.
Father, forgive me, for I am a
sinner, and make me the kind of
person who can forgive others.
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