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Krisan Marotta: Welcome to the
Wednesday in the Word podcast.
I'm Krisan Marotta, and this is
my podcast about what the Bible
means and how we know.
1 Timothy 2.12 is often treated
as a clear prohibition on what
women may do in the church.
But what if we've assumed of
the wrong settings of Paul's
words?
I've spent years trying to
prove the view I'm about to
explain wrong, and I failed.
In this episode, I'll explain
why I've changed my mind and
landed on a minority view.
I'll follow the context,
examine the dispute, and
consider how this minority view
changes the passage from a rule
about women and leadership to a
call for godliness and trust.
This is the seventh talk in my
series on the book of 1 Timothy.
Today we will study 1 Timothy
2, verses 9 through 15.
I'm really glad you joined me.
We are spending another podcast
on 1 Timothy 2, 9 through 15,
because it is one of the most
controversial and debated
chapters in the New Testament.
In the last podcast, I gave you
an overview of the debate, and
if you haven't listened to that,
I encourage you to do so first.
Generally speaking, the debate
falls into three schools of
thought: egalitarian, hard
complementarian, and soft
complementarian.
I gave a brief summary of each
position and showed you the main
interpretive points where they
differ.
Today I'm going to give you my
good-for-nothing understanding
of the chapter.
My understanding has changed
over the years.
I have adopted a minority view.
For me, what changed is my
understanding of the context and
how much weight I give to it.
You'll remember that the
surrounding context is one of
the issues on which the debate
turns.
I have always assumed that
chapter two is talking about
corporate worship and how men
and women are to conduct
themselves in the church during
public worship.
Because I always like to
understand all the sides of a
debate, I have been reading
people who challenge that
assumption and argued that Paul
isn't talking about public
worship at all in either chapter
two and sometimes in chapter
three.
Most notably, I'm indebted to
the work of Dr.
Jack Crabtree, and I will put a
link to his talks on this
subject in the lecture notes.
After hearing Dr.
Crabtree's view, I set out to
prove him wrong.
That was about 10 years ago
when I heard him expound on this
passage.
And I set out to prove that
public worship is and must be
the context, and I cannot do it.
I cannot find an argument more
convincing.
It's frustrating that a lot of
people just assume that this
chapter is all about corporate
worship and they don't even
address the issue because it's
been the traditional view for so
very long.
So I realize what I'm about to
explain is a minority view, and
I realize I could be wrong.
I am not adding anything new to
the debate, except maybe to get
more exposure to the minority
view.
Other people before me have
argued for this and they have
persuaded me.
So for whatever it's worth,
here's how I understand 1
Timothy 2, verses 9 through 15.
Since the context is one of the
turning points for me, let me
start there.
Let me remind you of how I'm
approaching this chapter.
In fact, how I've been
approaching this book, because I
must admit, one of the turning
points for me was studying the
book in its entirety and not
just chapter two that helped
swing my vote.
I have argued that Paul has
been on this theme of godliness,
and that chapter two fits into
that theme.
He introduced this theme first
in chapter one, verse five.
The aim of our charge is love
that issues from a pure heart
and a good conscience and a
sincere faith.
He continues in 118, the charge
I entrust you, Timothy, my
child, in accordance with the
prophecies previously made about
you, that by them you may fight
the good fight, holding faith
and a good conscience.
He continues in 2.2, pray for
kings and all who are in high
positions, that we may lead a
peaceful and quiet life, godly
and dignified in every way.
We see its opposite in 2.8, a
desire that in every place men
should pray, lifting holy hands
without anger and quarreling.
And we're going to see it in
this passage, in 2.10, but with
what is proper for women who
profess godliness with good
works.
And he's going to conclude with
it in the last verse, 215, if
they continue in faith and love
and holiness with self-control.
Now I've talked about this a
lot.
If you haven't been listening
to the podcast, you might want
to go back and listen to some of
the previous episodes where I
explain this theme more fully.
I see these phrases,
particularly the three words
good contents, which is
sunadesis, quiet, which is
Hesukia, and self-control, which
is sofra sune, as working
together to fill out this
picture, Paul has been painting
of leading a godly life.
They aren't quite synonyms of
each other, but they are related
aspects of this theme of
godliness that Paul has been
developing throughout this
letter.
We've talked about a good
conscience being an accurate
understanding of the gospel that
guides our judgment and our
choices.
So having a good conscience
does not mean I'm innocent.
It means I have a solid,
accurate understanding of the
truth, and then I choose to live
on the basis of that truth.
I act on it.
I evaluate my life and my
choices through this accurate
understanding of truth and the
gospel.
Self-control, suffracine is a
sober-mindedness or soundness of
mind.
People with soundness of mind
understand that God is their
creator and they are his
creatures.
They understand that God has
the right to define right and
wrong and define what good and
evil are, and they seek to live
within those boundaries.
So they are right-minded in
that sense.
And that right-mindedness
produces what he calls quiet or
Hesukiya.
That's not silence.
It's quiet in the sense of
calm, calm of spirit.
It's the opposite of the inward
rage, resentment, discontent,
and restless refusal to accept
the limits God has placed on
you.
So it's calm, quiet contentment
that grows out of a deep,
profound trust in God.
And we saw that Paul applied
this principle first to men in
relationship to the people in
authority over them, kings and
rulers.
And now I think he's turning to
women and applying the same
principle to the people they are
in authority under, namely
husbands.
So this chapter began, first of
all, then I urge that
entreaties and prayers,
petitions and thanksgivings be
made on behalf of all men.
So remember the chapter started
with first of all, well, first
of what?
What's he doing in this
chapter?
And I think that refers back to
the charge in 118.
This I charge you, Timothy,
that you fight the good fight
holding faith and a good
conscience.
So Paul has charged, fight the
good fight in pursuit of this
thing he calls a good conscience
and sincere faith.
Here's the first thing I want
to tell you about that fight.
The first area we're going to
apply this principle and talk
about how this fight may be
fought is let's look at what it
means for people who are under
authority figures.
One of the places you're going
to struggle to hold on to your
faith, to trust God and keep
this good conscience is in
dealing with the authority
figures in your life.
For men, that will primarily be
kings and government rulers.
For women, that's going to be
their husbands.
If I'm right, that means that
chapter two is all one section.
It's an argument in support of
one point.
It's not a collection of
related ideas surrounding men
and women.
There is a unified theme
running through it.
And that one main theme is what
Paul wants Timothy to promote
and build and hold on to.
And that one main theme has
nothing to do with Sunday
morning worship.
There are three Greek words
that are rarely used in the New
Testament, but they all come up
in this passage, and they come
up several times.
And I think those three words
give us a clue to his point, and
they relate to this theme of
godliness.
The first word is this word
translated peaceful by the ESV
or tranquil in the New American
Standard.
It occurs only here in 1
Timothy 2.2.
The second one is quiet, that's
the Hesukia I talked about
earlier.
It occurs in 1 Timothy 2.2 and
in 1 Peter 3.4.
And then the third one is
self-control, that's the
sofrasune, which means
sober-minded.
It occurs in 1 Timothy 2.9,
2.15, and then one time in Acts.
Notice that these words occur
both in relation to men and to
women.
So there's this continuity
between what he wants the men to
do and what he wants the women
to do.
The idea of tranquility,
quietness, and self-restraint
carries through both sections,
both the one addressed to men
and the one addressed to women.
And those two sections are
joined by a likewise in 2.9.
Both men and women are to fight
the good fight, to hold on to
faith and good conscience.
The struggle and the goal are
the same, but the particular
area where they struggle will be
different.
But no matter what the area
we're struggling, the goal is
this inward, calm spirit of
contentment and acceptance of
and submission to the will of
God because we believe the
gospel and we trust Him.
There's basically two ways to
respond to our lives.
We can become discontent,
angry, and bitter, or we can
accept whatever God gives us
with grateful contentment and
acceptance.
Imagine two women who find out
the same day that they are both
fired, their whole department's
being eliminated, and they are
stunned.
The first one starts
complaining, arguing, and
fighting.
She talks about how unfair it
is.
She talks about how much she's
given to the company and she
demands a review with this
spirit of anger, discontent, and
bitterness.
And when she goes home, she
yells at God for letting this
happen to her.
The second woman quietly asks
for the same review and
respectfully summarizes what
she's done for the company.
She lays out her case and she
waits.
And as she waits, she grieves
the loss and starts figuring out
what the next step might be.
When she gets home, she turns
to God and asks him, What is the
next step?
Same news, completely different
spirit.
And it's that spirit I think
that Paul is driving toward.
That's what he's getting at by
this whole theme of godliness.
He wants us to have this
peaceful, quiet,
self-controlled, right-minded
attitude.
And both men and women need to
have it.
And we looked at the section
that he addressed to men in the
previous podcast.
Why pray for kings and
bureaucrats and those who are in
authority?
Because those who are in
authority over our lives can
bring out our rage and
discontentment.
The authority figures can make
our lives miserable, and we
resent and despise their rules
and regulations that put limits
on us.
And Paul is saying, that's the
kind of rage I want you to
abandon.
Ultimately, God determines who
is going to be your king or your
president.
Ultimately, God works through
history through people like the
Assyrians, the Babylonians, the
Romans, the Democrats, and the
Republicans.
Your choice is to be angry
about it or to be content with
God's plan and pray for them.
That's a quick summary of what
we looked at last week.
Now he turns to women, and I
think he makes the same point.
He wants them to have the same
attitude of calm contentment.
So he says, likewise also that
women should adorn themselves in
respectable apparel with
modesty, not with braided hair
and gold or pearls or costly
attire, but with what is proper
for women who profess godliness
with good works.
So likewise, just like I want
the men to have this inner
contentment without wrath and
dissension, the contentment that
results in prayer even for
their enemies, so I want women
to be more concerned with their
inner contentment than their
outward beauty.
The most important adornment is
not clothing, it's godliness.
And he wants women to be
adorned with this tranquil inner
calm he's been talking about.
The most important adornment is
not outward braided hair, gold,
and pearls.
The most important adornment is
this inner attitude, this inner
spirit of humble contentment
before God.
The word modest here is only
used twice in the New Testament,
here in Timothy and then in
Hebrews 12, 28, where it is
translated awe.
I don't think it really should
be translated modesty as if
referring to clothing.
Rather, it should be more like
reverence or awe as referring to
our attitude toward God.
So I would paraphrase that I
want women to adorn themselves
with metaphorical clothes that
are truly adorning.
True adornment is not found in
the physical things like
braiding jewelry, rather, in a
reverent and sober attitude
toward God.
Conduct your life in a way that
expresses this trust and this
comic substance of who you are
and what God has created you to
be.
So I don't think his point is
anything at all about fashion by
proper clothing.
I think he just means clothing,
the clothing that really
matters, the metaphorical
clothing that is truly
beautiful, the metaphorical
clothing that makes you truly
beautiful.
So he's saying skip all that
outward stuff.
What makes a woman beautiful is
her inward attitude toward God
because she's adorning herself
with godliness, with good works.
Now he's going to explain that.
What kind of good works are we
talking about here?
The same thing that should
characterize your husbands in
the first eight verses.
Let's bring in 11 and 12.
Let a woman learn quietly with
all submissiveness.
I do not permit a woman to
teach or to exercise authority
over a man, rather, she is to
remain quiet.
Now many people before me have
commented on this phrase, let a
woman learn, because that was a
radical statement for its day.
In many cultures at the time,
the idea of a woman learning was
a ridiculous concept.
Women didn't need to be
educated, they thought.
And here Paul assumes, of
course, women will learn.
And when she's learning, here's
the attitude she should have
while learning.
Now, one of the interpretive
questions is whether Paul is
talking about men and women in
general, or whether Paul is
talking about husbands and
wives.
And the words, the Greek words
used here are the same.
Context tells us which is
which.
And we have things like this in
English all the time.
And we don't even think twice
about it.
If I say no man is an island,
nobody hears that and pictures a
single guy stranded somewhere,
you know instantly that I mean
humanity, all of us, men and
women alike.
But if I say there's a man at
the front door, then you do
picture one specific guy
standing on the porch.
It's the same word, two
completely different meanings,
and nothing in the word tells
you which one is intended.
It's the sentence around it or
the context that tells you which
I mean.
Well, that's exactly the
problem we run into in Greek.
The word for man and the word
for husband are the same word.
The word for women and the word
for wife are the same word.
So every single time these
words show up, we ask the
question, is this the general or
is this the specific?
And the only thing that can
answer the question is context.
That's true in Ephesians 5, and
that's true here in Timothy.
Now, sometimes Paul gives us a
clue, he'll say something like
his own woman or her own man,
clearly indicating he means
husband and wife.
We don't have a clue here
either way.
The history of English
translation is to assume he
means all women and all men, but
it is just as valid an
interpretive option to assume he
means husbands and wives.
In all my reading, and I've
done a lot of reading on this
chapter, most people assume this
verse must be taken as all men
and all women.
It's tradition, and they don't
explain it.
The best argument I found for
taking it as all men and all
women is that in the very next
section, Paul's going to talk
about elders and deacons.
Since he's talking about
leadership in the church in
chapter three, people argue he
must be talking about teaching
in the church here in chapter
two.
Well, in my view, that's a
fairly weak argument.
People who understand him to
mean all men and all women say,
see, he points to Genesis, and
Genesis is a paradigm for all
men and women.
People who think he means
husbands and wives say, look,
Paul points to Genesis, and
Genesis is the paradigm for
marriage, so we know he means
husbands and wives.
You can see the problem here.
As I mentioned, about 10 years
ago, I heard Jack Crabtree argue
that Paul means husbands and
wives.
He made a pretty strong case
for it.
I've been pondering it ever
since and trying to prove him
wrong, and I can't.
He presents a good interpretive
option, and in fact, taking
this as husbands and wives
solves a lot of the other
interpretive issues.
In many ways, I think it makes
more sense than the
alternatives.
So at this point, my
understanding has shifted.
I now think Paul is addressing
husbands and wives, in
particular, in this section, for
several reasons.
First, Paul has been talking
about the authority figures that
we most chafe under.
For husbands or men, the
annoying authority figure is
kings, bureaucrats, bosses, and
people they must submit to in
life and work.
For wives, especially in Paul's
day, the annoying authority
figure is their husband as head
of the household.
I think Genesis is clearly a
paradigm for head and helper in
marriage.
I don't think it's as clearly
generalized to all men and all
women as people have argued.
So in that sense, I am a
thoroughgoing complementarian.
I do believe that scripture
teaches the role of head and
helper in marriage.
I also believe that no passage
of scripture in either testament
ever teaches that all men have
all authority over all women.
I believe headship is an
authority that is limited in
scope to marriage.
So it makes sense for Paul to
address the authority figures in
the lives of women as their
husbands because at the time he
wrote, 99.9% of women of
marriageable age were married,
and their authority figure is
their husband.
If not, it's their father.
Some have suggested that this
is the one and only passage that
teaches universal male
authority.
Let's just say I find that
highly unlikely, but I don't
want to get sidetracked on the
issues of the debate in this
podcast.
If I'm right, that's a big if,
if I'm right, that means the
critical issue in this section
is not gender.
It's your role as wife.
It's not her gender that places
her under the authority of a
man.
It is her covenant commitment
to him in marriage that puts her
in that role.
She took vows to join a
particular relationship, and
that relationship carries a
particular set of commitments.
So if I'm right, and I
recognize I may be wrong, what
Paul is saying is a wife in
quietness, that's Heisukyo, a
wife with that inner humble calm
of accepting who you are and
what God has asked of you is to
receive instruction.
At this point, it makes more
sense to me that he's talking
about how a woman should learn
and listen in her marriage than
on how she should learn and
listen in a public church
service.
Paul doesn't specify that this
is a public worship event.
We have to make that
interpretive choice from the
context.
And I found when I went to try
to make the case for it being a
public church service, I
couldn't make a very strong
case.
Perhaps you could argue from
this word learn that learn
implies a teacher student kind
of relationship, and that would
open the door to it being a
public worship service.
And therefore, we're talking
about church leadership.
But this is just the ordinary
Greek verb for learning.
The NASB translates it receive
instruction.
The ESV translates it learn.
It's used of students in a
classroom setting, but it's also
used of children in the home
and generally any situation
where someone learns something
from someone else.
It is possible that Paul has a
mind a classroom setting and he
wants female students to listen
attentively without comment or
debate or interaction.
But that seems to me to be a
radical departure from the
context of verses one through
eight, talking about authority
figures in the lives of men.
It just seems to make more
sense that when he says
likewise, he's going to talk
about the authority figures in
the lives of women, which at the
time for most women was her
husband, not her church.
So I don't think anything in
the context that requires Paul
to be talking about formal
learning in a classroom or a
public church service, unless
you think the only time men
prayed was during corporate
worship, especially the only
time they prayed for the
salvation of kings or something
was during public worship.
It seems more likely to me that
he's talking about a headship
and a marriage.
He's talking about a marriage
relationship between a husband
and wife who have decisions they
need to make.
What are we going to do with
our lives?
Where are we going to live?
How are we going to raise our
kids?
And the command is to listen
respectfully and openly, without
wrath and dissension.
I don't think he means that
women or wives are to say yes,
sir, without comment or
interaction, because part of a
wife's role is to be a helper.
Yes, sir, is no help at all.
Acquiescence, without any
offering of biblical wisdom and
understanding, is abdicating
that role.
It's no help at all.
The contrast here is not
between accepting instruction
without comment or accepting
instruction with comment.
The contrast is between
listening and accepting
instruction with respect and
contentment, trusting that God
is in control, versus accepting
instruction with wrath,
rebellion, and condescension.
Essentially, it's the same
point he made to men.
You can be angry and bitter and
rage against the authority
figure in your life, or you can
trust God for the authority
figure in your life and respond
with inner calm and quiet with
this attitude of respect and
careful listening.
So he's not saying you have to
agree without comment.
He's saying you should comment
without wrath, rage, anger, or
bitterness.
You should be able to listen
and respond to your husband with
respect and in inner quiet and
speak the truth in love.
Accept your role in the
marriage relationship and offer
the best, wisest biblical
counsel you can with respect and
love rather than picking a
fight, getting angry, or
rebelling against it.
So picture a couple sitting at
the kitchen table.
There's a job offer on the
table.
Literally, there's a piece of
paper between them, and it means
moving the whole family across
the country.
She thinks it's a bad idea, and
maybe she's right.
Maybe the kids are finally
settled, maybe she's watched her
husband chased three big
opportunities before that didn't
pan out, and maybe she can see
something he can't see yet.
In that situation, here's what
I think quietness looks like and
doesn't look like.
She makes her case like she
believes it matters, because it
does.
And then if he still says, I've
considered all of that, and I
still think we ought to move,
she doesn't spend the next two
years reminding him she said so.
She trusts that God has a plan.
So that's a wife offering real
help instead of a rubber stamp
or a power struggle.
And notice that's a completely
different posture than saying
nothing at all.
Now remember, Paul also wrote
Ephesians 5, and in that letter
he instructs husbands to love
their wives as their own bodies,
even to the point of dying for
them.
It's the same kind of attitude
he's calling for here.
A woman should receive
instruction with a submissive
attitude of contentment.
I do not permit a wife to give
instructions, that is, to impose
her own will on her husband,
rather, she is to accept his
headship with contentment.
Now we've talked about this
word for authority and how it is
one of the words on which the
debate turns.
The word occurs only once in
the New Testament, right here in
1 Timothy.
It's a compound with the word
for self, and it has the idea of
exercising authority in a
positive sense or imposing
yourself in a negative sense.
And does Paul mean it
positively or negatively here is
one of the big points of
debate.
And this is where we run into
the concept of hendiadis again.
There's a lot of debate over
whether the phrase to teach and
to have authority is one idea or
two ideas.
And I've heard people argue
from the Greek both ways.
Both sides emphatically insist
the Greek requires it to be
their choice.
Now remember, a hendiadist is
two coordinated words that
express one idea.
If I said she disciplined the
kids with love and patience, you
wouldn't picture two separate
things.
You wouldn't picture her first
disciplining them with love and
then unrelatedly disciplining
them with patience.
You'd hear one idea.
This is a particular kind of
discipline, a loving patient
discipline.
That's a hinditus.
Two words, one idea.
And I think to teach or to
exercise authority works the
same way.
Not two separate prohibitions
stacked on each other, but one
idea teaching in a way that
imposes her will.
Now, plenty of Greek scholars
land somewhere else on that
point, and this is another one
of those places where good,
faithful interpreters disagree.
If I'm right, all 212 is saying
is basically, I don't permit
the role reversal in marriage.
She is not to instruct her
husband in such a way as to
impose her will on her husband.
Rather, she is to accept with
humility before God the rules he
has established in marriage.
Now, strictly speaking, it's
not a role reversal because Paul
would condemn a husband for
imposing his will on his wife.
Remember Ephesians 5, love her
as Christ loved the church.
But again, that's a talk for
another day.
If, and I do mean if, I'm
right, then Paul isn't speaking
to church leadership at all in
this verse, and we have to
figure out the roles for women
in the church from other
passages.
And now we get to his appeal to
Genesis.
I'm going to read 213 through
the first part of 3.1.
For Adam was formed first, then
Eve, and Adam was not deceived,
but the woman was deceived and
became a transgressor.
Yet she will be saved through
childbearing if they continue in
faith and love and holiness
with self-control.
It is a trustworthy statement.
Now I included that trustworthy
statement because many
translations take that phrase,
it is a trustworthy statement,
as referring to what comes next
if a man aspires to the office
of overseer.
And I used to think that
largely because of the chapter
break.
But I found some scholars who
argued that it refers backwards
to 213 through 15, and that
makes a lot more sense.
That would imply that this
statement for Adam was formed
first, then Eve, Adam was not
deceived, but the woman was
deceived and became a
transgressor, and so on, that
that is the trustworthy
statement, that that has become
a catchphrase.
And we have these sayings in
our modern usage.
For example, I might say we are
saved through faith alone, by
grace alone, and Christ alone.
And that's a summary statement
for the teachings of the
Reformation.
When we hear that phrase, or
when we use that phrase, we
expect our listeners to
understand Reformation theology,
and we've encapsulated it into
this caste phrase.
That's the kind of thing Paul's
quoting here, and we saw this
earlier in 1.15.
Well, I think 2, 13, and 14 has
that same kind of structure
that we'd expect of a summary
statement, but 3.1 does not.
213 through 15 is clearly a
shorthand way to refer to
Genesis to the creation account.
3-1 and following is not really
a reference to any particular
scripture or any story.
So 3-1 through 3 has none of
the kind of structure we'd
expect from a summary statement.
But 213 through 15 does.
It's cryptic, it's short, it's
dense, and it assumes you know
the story behind the words.
So the statement then is this
Adam was formed first, then Eve.
Adam was not deceived, but his
wife being completely deceived,
he happened into transgression.
That statement is reliable.
That statement invites us to
know the story of Genesis 2 and
3.
Just like we are saved by the
blood of Jesus invites us to
know the gospel.
Paul's not referring to the
order of creation alone.
It's not the fact that Adam was
physically created first that's
the issue.
Paul expects his readers to
know the entire creation story
and the significance of that
story, and this is a shorthand
way to refer to it.
So God created Adam out of the
dust.
He put him in the garden and
gave him the task of cultivating
the ground.
He instructed Adam on what he
could and could not eat.
And then God said, It's not
good for man to be alone.
I will make him a helper
suitable for him.
God then created Eve with a
different role, that of helper.
God created marriage as the
answer to mankind's need for
intimacy, and he created
sexuality for the purpose of
marriage.
Now I've got all kinds of talks
on Genesis and what those are
in greater detail.
I'm not going to go into the
role of head and help for more
than that.
Paul explains this in a lot
more detail in Ephesians 5, and
I have other podcasts on the
topic, which I will link to in
the blog version of this
podcast.
The question we want to explore
is how does that support what
he just said in 211 and 12?
Why does Paul not allow a wife
to impose her authority on her
husband?
Why should she receive
instruction from her husband
with humble godliness and
quietness?
Because God assigned the
husband the role of head and God
will hold him accountable.
Paul expects you to know what
happened in the garden.
The evil one came to Eve and
completely and utterly deceived
her, such that she probably
thought she was doing something
pleasing to God when in fact she
was wrong.
And then Genesis three six
says, She gave also to her
husband with her, and he ate.
Now, consider that moment in
time.
Eve put Adam in an impossible
situation.
She is forcing him to choose
between her and God.
His wife turns to him, and who
knows what she said.
But you could imagine it was
something like, Hey, look, I
ate.
Don't you want to eat too?
I really think you should eat
too.
She was probably still deceived
into thinking she was doing a
good thing, but Adam is not
deceived.
He knows that eating is wrong.
And yet here is the wife he
loves and may very well lose,
saying, Choose what I say, don't
choose what God says.
And he has to choose between
following God and following her.
He can displease his wife by
not eating, or he can displease
God if he eats.
So who is Adam going to listen
to?
Adam's eyes are wide open.
Adam knows that he is
displeasing God.
Eve was deceived.
She probably thinks, you know,
there wasn't anything wrong with
what I did, and it would be a
good thing for Adam to eat too.
But Adam is not deceived.
He chooses to listen to the
voice of his wife instead of
listening to the voice of God.
And then the fall happens, and
that is why he's blamed.
Eve didn't consciously choose
to disobey God, she was
deceived.
Adam made the choice to disobey
God.
And one of the lessons I think
Paul is drawing out of the story
is a wife should never put her
husband in that kind of position
of forcing him to choose
between her and God.
Now, neither should any husband
put his wife in that position
either.
But here in the garden, you
have a situation where Eve was
giving instructions to Adam.
She wasn't doing it behind the
pulpit in a pastoral teaching
setting, but she was forcing a
choice on him.
And in that sense, she was
imposing her will by forcing
Adam to choose between her and
God.
And remember what God says to
Adam after the fall when he
confronts Adam.
He says in Genesis 3.17,
Because you have listened to the
voice of your wife.
You listen to her voice, the
voice that told you to disobey
me.
You let her impose her will on
you.
You listened to her
instructions and chose to
disobey your Lord.
I told you not to eat, she told
you to eat, and you listen to
her instead.
Now, if I'm right, then Eve is
a very real illustration of what
Paul is instructing wives not
to do.
He's saying, Don't be like Eve
and force that kind of a choice
on your husband.
Paul's saying, I don't permit a
wife to give the kind of
instructions that imposes her
will on her husband, especially
if that will opposes God's.
Her temptation is going to be
to rebel, to manipulate, and to
use all kinds of wily and
skillful means to get her way.
And that's not okay.
Instead, she should offer wise
biblical advice and trust that
God is in control.
It's never okay to give
instructions or advice that
pitch your own will and your own
desires against what God
desires.
Now we get to the question of
who is verse 215 talking about?
The ESV says she will be saved
through childbearing.
The New American Standard has
women will be preserved through
childbearing, but the word woman
or women is not in the text.
And you'll notice that the NASB
put it in gray italics to tell
you they added it.
The ESV uses the third person
feminine pronoun she.
But what we have here is a
third-person singular verb.
That means the pronoun can be
he, she, or it, and the context
tells you which it is.
It grammatically refers back to
the last subject.
And exactly who or what the
last subject is is one of the
points of debate.
It is singular, so it cannot be
they.
That leaves us with he, she, or
it, and there's no it, there's
no neutral subject in sight.
So our choices are does it
refer to Adam or does it refer
to Eve?
My understanding is that this
refers to Adam.
In 214, Adam is the subject of
the sentence.
His name appears as the noun to
which the verb refers.
There is no new noun given in
215, so my understanding is the
verb ought to refer back to our
last subject.
Now, you could argue, and some
do, that Adam and Eve have both
been mentioned in 214, so it's
possible the same verb refers
back to Eve, but I think the
grammar tips a little bit in
favor of it referring to Adam.
And in the context, that makes
a lot more sense.
But again, this is one of the
points of debate.
I think each statement in this
little section is a statement
about Adam.
213, Adam was formed first,
he's the subject.
214, Adam was not deceived,
he's the subject, and 215, we
would expect Adam to continue
being the subject unless there's
some reason not to.
If he was the subject in the
two previous statements, we
would expect him to be the
subject in the next statement
unless Paul gives us a new
subject somehow.
So I think what he's saying is
Adam was formed first, then Eve.
That's a shorthand, for Adam
was given the role of head in
marriage.
And of course, you need to read
the whole Genesis account to
understand that.
Adam chose to transgress.
Again, you need to know the
Genesis story.
Eve was deceived and forced a
choice on Adam.
Adam was the first one to
transgress because he made a
deliberate conscience choice to
disobey God.
But even though Adam
transgressed, he will be saved
through childbearing.
Now again, this is a shorthand
phrase.
Paul expects you to know what
happens in Genesis.
Adam, and hence all mankind,
will be rescued from its
condemnation to death, and Eve,
the woman, will be the agent
through whom that rescue will
come.
And that is a cryptic
statement, I think, that refers
back to the story of Genesis,
and Paul expects us to know what
was promised at the fall.
God promised that the woman
would bear a seed that would
crush the evil one.
This is Genesis 3, 14 and 15.
The Lord God said to the
serpent, Because you have done
this, cursed are you more than
all the cattle, and more than
every beast of the field, on
your belly you will go, and dust
you will eat all the days of
your life.
And I will put enmity between
you and the woman, and between
your seed and her seed.
He shall bruise you on the
head, and you shall bruise him
on the heel.
And most everybody s
understands that Genesis three
fifteen as to be the first
proclamation of the Messiah.
The woman will bear a child,
and from the line of those
children will come the Messiah
who will rescue mankind.
So sin entered the world
through the deception of the
woman, but the line of salvation
will also come from a woman.
Salvation hinges fully and
completely on the Messiah, Jesus
Christ, who was born of a woman
and lived a sinless life and
died in our place.
You'll remember that Adam names
his wife Eve, which means
mother of all life, and that's
true in two senses.
She will bear the first
physical children, but more
importantly, she will bear a
child, and from that line of
faith will come the Messiah who
has the power to grant eternal
life to those who believed.
How will anyone be saved?
Well, you could say through
childbearing.
And that would be a cryptic
shorthand way to refer to the
Messiah who will die in our
place, because that messiah will
be born to a woman.
So we will all be saved through
a child born of the woman.
And if they, and now he
switches to the third person
plural pronoun, continue in
faith, love, holiness, and
godliness.
This theme that he has been
talking about since chapter one.
So anyone who will be saved
will be saved because of the
Messiah if they have the saving
faith that leads to this
godliness.
If they continue in faith,
love, holiness, and godliness.
So if I'm right, the issue in
this passage has nothing to do
with women teaching in church,
women teaching men in general,
or leadership roles in the
church or in society.
Instead, it has everything to
do with husbands and wives
accepting the authorities God
has put in their lives.
Just think for a minute about
this idea that women can't teach
men over a certain age.
Let's assume my friend Bob is
facing a situation that requires
biblical wisdom.
And let's assume God has given
my husband that wisdom.
How could it possibly be right
or loving for my husband to
withhold that information from
him?
It wouldn't.
So take another step.
My friend Bob is facing the
same situation that requires
biblical wisdom and assume that
God has given me a woman that
wisdom.
How could it possibly be the
right or loving thing to do for
me to withhold that information
from him simply because he's a
man and I'm a woman?
I don't think it would.
Now let's go another step.
Say any of us has biblical
wisdom.
When is Is it ever right to
keep that to ourselves?
Now, of course, I'm assuming
that I don't approach my friend
with some kind of arrogant,
prideful, condescending
attitude, like, how could you be
so slow as to not get this?
Or to approach him with
ridicule or sarcasm or
belittling him or disrespecting
him in some way.
That kind of approach is never
right no matter who speaks it.
But let's assume that along
with biblical wisdom, I have the
ability to speak truth with
humility.
How could it ever be right not
to share the light God has given
you?
Why would gender have anything
to do with that?
But there is a unique and
special covenant relationship
within a marriage.
And when you're trying to make
two lives into one life, and one
person will be held accountable
for it, in that relationship,
it may very well be my place to
offer all the biblical wisdom I
have with a respectful, gentle,
and humble, godly attitude.
And then if I fail to persuade,
say, okay, we do it your way.
All right, let me wrap this up.
As I said, my understanding of
this has changed.
I am still a complimentarian,
but I lean toward what some
might consider a more
egalitarian understanding of
this chapter.
And I recognize I may be wrong,
but this is where I've landed.
I would say this whole chapter
from verse 1 through verse 15 is
is one argument.
It's not two unrelated topics
stitched together.
Paul is talking about the same
thing he's been talking about
since chapter one.
How do you hold on to faith and
a good conscience?
And here he's applying that to
when you're under an authority
figure that you don't like.
For men, that authority figure
is kings and rulers and
bureaucrats and politicians.
For women, it's their husbands
because in Paul's day, 99.9% of
women were un were married.
But in both cases, Paul wants
the same response.
Not rage, not rebellion, not
resentment, but a quiet,
self-controlled trust that God
is in control of whatever
authority is in your life,
whether you'd have picked that
authority or not.
I think Paul appeals to Genesis
and the creation of Adam and
Eve as pointing to headship
within marriage.
He isn't handing us a job
description for church
leadership.
He's talking to us about how we
respond to the authority
figures in life.
And then in the next chapter,
he's going to look at people who
have authority and talk about
how they should handle it and
what we should look for in our
leaders.
If I'm right, this principle
doesn't stay inside a marriage
or government.
It's really about how you
respond to any circumstance God
has put you in.
Maybe you have a boss you
didn't choose, or you have
parents whose rules you don't
get to vote on.
Maybe you're sitting in a
classroom under a professor
whose politics or theology you
can't stand.
The challenge of this passage
is what does it look like to
disagree with the person in
authority over you?
And Paul's urging us not to
respond to that authority with
anger, rebellion, bitterness,
resentment, not to try to
undermine our boss or go around
her or manipulate until we get
our way.
The call is to trust God.
The call is to bring your best
thinking to the table with
respect and humility, and then
trust that God is in control,
even if the decision doesn't go
your way.
And you trust so much that you
can pray for the salvation of
the person making your life
miserable.
That could be your parents,
your professor, your boss, your
husband, your president.
It's all the same test.
Do you ultimately trust that
God is in control?
So if you're a woman, the
question this passage puts to
you is not, am I allowed to
speak, or when am I allowed to
speak, or can I explain truth to
a man?
The question this passage puts
to you is how am I speaking?
Am I offering wisdom from a
place of godliness and trust in
God?
Or am I rebelling and
maneuvering to get your way?
And if you're a man, this
passage challenges you with the
same question.
How are you speaking?
How are you making decisions?
How are you exercising whatever
authority you have?
And if you're a boss in
whatever setting, you need to
ask yourself whether you're the
kind of boss worth trusting with
that wisdom in the first place.
Now, as I said, this
interpretation is a minority
view.
I hold it with an open hand.
I may be wrong, but I think
that reading fits all the words
Paul chose and the argument he
was already building in the
chapter, and what he says
elsewhere about husbands and
wives best.
So test it, wrestle with it,
come to your own conclusions,
because that's how we figure out
what a passage means and not
just what it means, but how we
know.
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