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Krisan Marotta: Welcome to
Wednesday in the Word.
I'm Krisan Marotta, and this is
my podcast about what the Bible
means and how we know.
Today is the 11th talk in my
series on 2 Corinthians, and we
will be studying 2 Corinthians
chapter 7, verses 2 through 16.
When should you say the hard
thing that might upset your
friend, but also might bring
repentance and reconciliation?
And when should you stay
silent?
How do you tell godly grief and
the kind of grief that only
wounds?
We'll be tackling those
questions in today's passage.
I'm glad you came along.
Well, as always, let's review
where we are in the letter
because context is always
important.
Paul is writing to the church
he founded in Corinth.
He has a very troubled
relationship with them.
Some in the church have
rejected him and don't think
he's really an apostle.
And from chapter one, he has
been defending himself and his
apostleship.
In the last podcast, we went
through the end of chapter six
to ask what Paul means by
unequally yoked and why that
command sits inside his appeal
to open your hearts.
And I argued that this isn't a
tangent.
It actually fits very well with
the plea that comes before and
after it, open your hearts to
the true gospel.
Because Paul is writing to a
church of mixed believers and
unbelievers.
There is a group in Corinth who
claims to be Christians, but
they are continuing to pursue a
pagan lifestyle.
And Paul argues don't be yoked
with them.
Don't as a church encourage
them to believe that they are
Christians when they have not
yet repented.
Paul argues that God's people
fear God, they know God will be
merciful if they repent and
follow him, and their pagan
neighbors are taking a road that
leads to death.
The people of God cannot follow
them down that road because
they have repented and they have
turned back toward God, they
are heading in a different
direction, and those two kinds
of people cannot be joined
together as a church.
So when Paul talks about being
unequally yoked to unbelievers
in this particular context, he
is talking about joining
together as a church.
His concern is what the church
is communicating.
Being a believer means
something.
It means fearing God and
repenting and turning back,
agreeing with God that we have
done wrong, that we need his
mercy, and he needs to show us
the right way.
It makes no sense to include
people in the church who will
not repent, who will not turn
from idolatry and immorality,
and it's not loving to encourage
them in their deception that
they're on the right road when
they're not.
Now, that principle can be
applied to other areas like
marriage and business, which we
talked about, but in the context
Paul's talking about a church.
And that brings us to where we
left off in chapter seven.
Paul has used some strong
language with the Corinthians,
warning them, exhorting them,
defending his ministry, urging
them not to take the grace of
God in vain, warning them
against being cold toward him.
There's quite a bit of tension
between Paul and the
Corinthians.
So imagine that you're
rummaging around in the Bible
and you come across a statement
that Paul wrote to one of the
churches he was writing to, and
it says I am acting with great
boldness toward you, I have
great pride in you, I am filled
with comfort, in all our
affliction I am overflowing with
joy.
Well, if you just read that,
you might think Paul is writing
to a great group of believers.
He must have a better
relationship with them than he
does with the Corinthians.
I mean too bad he couldn't
speak with such confidence and
boasting and joy to the
Corinthians the way he did to
this church.
Well, of course, Paul says that
in our passage today.
That is Second Corinthians
seven four, which he wrote to
the Corinthians.
So how do we reconcile the very
negative things he says to them
with the very positive things
he says to them?
And that's part of what we're
going to sort out today.
We are starting in chapter
seven verse two, I'm going to
read you two through four.
Make room in your hearts for
us.
We have wronged no one, we have
corrupted no one, we have taken
advantage of no one.
I do not say this to condemn
you, for I said before that you
are in our hearts to die
together and to live together.
I am acting with great boldness
toward you.
I have great pride in you, I am
filled with comfort, in all our
affliction I am overflowing
with joy.
Now that last statement, that's
a very positive sounding thing
to say, considering what Paul
has been saying up to this
point.
So to make sense of what Paul's
saying here and why he's saying
it, let's review a little bit
of what we know about Paul's
relationship with the
Corinthians, because I think
that will help us sort this out.
Remember, this is where Paul
returns to the story that he
started back in chapter two.
And we talked about this when
we started the letter.
If you have a Bible map, it
might be handy to take a look at
it.
If you go to my website
wednesdayintheword.com and
search for geography of the New
Testament, you will find a
really beautiful map from Bible
history online, and I will put a
link to that in the show notes.
But if you don't have a map, if
you're driving or something
while you're listening, picture
an upside down horseshoe.
The horseshoe part is the land
and in the middle is the Aegean
Sea.
Ephesus is over on the east
side, north of Ephesus is Troaz,
across the sea, so going across
the middle of the horseshoe, to
the north and west is
Macedonia, and below Macedonia,
kind of to the south and west is
Corinth in Acacia, and we would
call that Greece.
Now in this upside down
horseshoe, Ephesus is on one
side and Corinth is on the
other.
To travel between them, you
could go directly across the
middle of the horseshoe or go
directly across the sea by boat,
or you could go around the
horseshoe on land, which takes
longer.
So Paul was in Ephesus and he
went to Corinth for what he
refers to as his painful visit.
While he was there some man
caused some kind of trouble, but
it was a great deal of trouble.
We don't know what he did, but
he did something, and the
situation was so bad that Paul
decided he had to leave
abruptly.
Presumably no one in Corinth
helped Paul or tried to diffuse
the situation because Paul
decided he needed to leave
abruptly.
He returned to Ephesus and from
there he wrote them the
sorrowful letter.
He told the Corinthians he
would visit them again, and
originally he had planned to
cross the sea from Ephesus to
Corinth, travel north to
Macedonia, and then come down to
the south back through Corinth
before heading to Jerusalem and
Antioch.
So he had told them he planned
to visit them twice, once on the
way up to Macedonia, and then
again on the way back down as he
headed toward Jerusalem.
But he didn't do this because
the sorrowful visit in between
made things so bad that he felt
two more visits would only make
the situation worse.
So instead of visiting, he
wrote the sorrowful letter.
Paul sent Titus to Corinth with
the letter and he stayed behind
in Ephesus.
But Paul is very anxious to
hear from Titus how this letter
went over, how it was received.
So he traveled by land up to
Troaz, hoping to meet Titus on
his return from Corinth.
When he gets there, Paul told
us he has an opportunity for
ministry, but he was so anxious
and upset about the situation in
Corinth that he couldn't stay
and do it, so he kept going
around the land of the horseshoe
until he came to Macedonia,
where he finally meets Titus.
So Paul didn't visit the
Corinthians as he said he would,
and he began this exploration
back in chapter two, but he left
us hanging.
Remember this is chapter two
verses twelve and thirteen.
When I came to Tores to preach
the gospel of Christ, even
though a door was opened for me
in the Lord, my spirit was not
at rest because I did not find
my brother Titus there, so I
took leave of them and went on
to Macedonia.
At that spot he stops.
He doesn't say what happened
when he got to Macedonia.
Instead he breaks into a
defense of his ministry, which
we've been looking at, that runs
all the way from chapter two to
our passage today in chapter
seven.
Now he's going to return to the
story.
He defended himself and his
ministry.
He reminds them the gospel that
he teaches is true and
powerful.
He says he himself is not
adequate for such a ministry,
but God has made him adequate.
God is the one behind him doing
all these things.
He tells them how he suffered
many things on their behalf.
He insists he's a man of
honesty and integrity, and he
loves them greatly and urges
them not to receive the message
of grace in vain.
And last week we saw kind of
the culmination of Paul's appeal
to them.
He says, Open your hearts to
me, and he urges them to
essentially reconcile with him.
Now in our passages today, he
continues with that.
I think he's wrapping up his
defense here.
He's saying, Soften your
hearts, listen to me, make room
in your hearts for me.
I've done nothing wrong.
I haven't harmed you in any
way.
And all of this language makes
it clear that there is tension
between Paul and the
Corinthians.
You don't say, I didn't wrong
anyone unless someone is
accusing you of wronging
someone.
He has been defending his
ministry and his motives, and
now he's urging them to abandon
the negative feelings they're
clinging to and soften toward
him instead.
Saying, Don't be restrained in
your affections, don't treat me
as if I had wronged you or been
corrupt or taken advantage of
you because I didn't do that.
And it's in that context that
we come across this positive
language, this more conciliatory
tone.
Let's keep reading.
This is two through four.
Make room in your hearts for
us.
We have wronged no one, we have
corrupted no one, we have taken
advantage of no one.
I do not say this to condemn
you, for I said before that you
are in our hearts to die
together and to live together.
I am acting with great boldness
toward you, I have great pride
in you, I am filled with
comfort, in all our affliction I
am overflowing with joy.
Now note, Paul says in this
context, I do not speak to
condemn you.
I think he's acknowledging the
relationship has gotten pretty
bad.
He has been speaking somewhat
strongly to them, and his words
could be interpreted as
condemning the Corinthians for
their attitude toward him.
But he's saying, No, that's not
what I'm doing.
I have a strong affection for
you.
I'm not speaking to condemn
you, I'm speaking to reconcile
our relationship.
And he can say that in some
sense he has confidence in them.
He boasts on their behalf, and
as we keep reading, I think
he'll give us a better sense of
what he's talking about.
Even in the midst of these
afflictions he has, he has joy,
and it is this mention of
afflictions that finally brings
us back to the story of what
happened when he went to
Macedonia.
This is seven five.
For even when we came into
Macedonia, our bodies had no
rest, but we were afflicted at
every turn, fighting without and
fear within.
Now, if you've been with me
since the beginning of this
series, you know that Paul has
been talking about his
afflictions in this letter.
One of the most powerful themes
that runs through this letter
is this idea that Paul suffered
greatly as an apostle, and he
suffered so that his listeners
could hear the gospel.
He takes on these hardships,
this great suffering for the
sake of spreading the gospel so
that others can understand it.
Evidently when he arrived in
Macedonia, he still hadn't found
Titus yet.
Now remember, Macedonia is a
region, it's not a particular
city.
In Macedonia, Paul founded
several churches, including
those in the cities of Philippi,
Thessalonica, and Berea.
Presumably he's revisiting
those churches that he had
founded, and he describes it as
his sufferings continue when he
does that.
He's already troubled by the
situation with Corinthians.
He's concerned about how
they're going to respond to the
letter, and now when he goes
back through Philippi,
Thessalonica, and Berea, there's
some sort of situation going on
that is afflicting him.
And he describes that as
conflicts without and fears
within.
He has conflicts externally
with the people in Macedonia,
and internally he is anxious
about the Corinthians.
Acts 20 verses 1 and 2 tells us
as Paul went through these
districts of Macedonia, he gave
them much exhortation, so he is
working while he's waiting for
Titus.
And meanwhile, it seems the
people of Macedonia are giving
him a hard time, just like the
Corinthians are giving him a
hard time.
It's not clear who is
afflicting him.
It could be some people in the
churches, it could be Jews from
the synagogue, or it could be
the local government.
He doesn't say where the
problem's coming from.
But finally, Titus arrives.
But God, who comforts the
downcast, comforted us by the
coming of Titus, and not only by
his coming, but also by the
comfort with which he was
comforted by you, as he told us
of your longing, your mourning,
your zeal for me, so that I
rejoice still more.
Finally we get to the end of
the story.
Paul tells us Titus joined him
in Macedonia and reported how
the Corinthians responded.
Now we already know a little
bit about how the Corinthians
responded because Paul has been
talking about it in the letter.
We know at least two things
that Paul learned from Titus.
First, we know the Corinthians
did in fact deal with the man
who had opposed Paul.
In 2.6, we saw the majority of
those in Corinth listened to
Paul and rebuked the man who was
causing trouble.
They didn't blow Paul off, they
handled the situation well, and
Paul rejoiced over that.
This is what Paul calls their
longings, their mournings, and
their zeal.
But the second thing we know is
that even though there was good
news, there is still trouble in
Corinth.
We know from earlier parts of
the letter, Paul also learned
that some in Corinth were
accusing him of hypocrisy and
indifference because he didn't
visit them as he said he would.
So we know that the majority in
Corinth rebuked the man who
opposed him, but there is still
a minority there who disagreed
with that decision and they are
agitating against Paul, and all
of that is swirling around the
situation as Paul is writing
this letter.
Now I think it's interesting to
think about how Titus must have
felt walking into that
situation.
Remember, the relationship was
so bad in Corinth that Paul left
abruptly, and then he sends
Titus back with this sorrowful
letter, a letter that might make
the Corinthians even angrier.
Now, if they weren't happy with
Paul, what are they going to do
with Titus when he arrives and
reads this stern letter out
loud?
I mean they might decide to
beat him up and run him out of
town.
I think Titus deserves a lot of
credit for the courage it took
to go back into a volatile
situation and stand up for Paul.
He shows a lot of uh fortitude
there.
And finally, Titus returns,
he's encouraged by their
response, his that encourages
Paul.
Paul's delighted they didn't
beat Titus up or something, and
instead they treated him well.
Now in 7-6, Paul speaks of God
as one who comforts the
downcast.
By downcast, I don't think he
means depressed in the sense
that we talk about that today.
He is sorrowful that he had to
write such a harsh letter.
He's worried about their
spiritual health.
He's weary from the constant
opposition he faces, so he is
downcast in that sense.
He is run down because of the
difficulty of his circumstances.
But I wouldn't don't think he
means here that he was depressed
in any kind of clinical way.
He's just weary and run down
from all the things he's dealing
with.
And I would like to translate
this word encourage rather than
comfort.
Comfort is not a bad
translation.
It works, but to me anyway, it
carries more the idea of calm
down, settle down, kind of sleep
through it and ease the pain a
bit.
I think this word has more the
sense of encouragement.
It's more strengthen your
resolve.
It's a kind of looking at the
situation, remembering the
promises of God and realizing
the situation is not as
hopeless.
I can go on.
God gives Paul encouragement in
this case by showing him that
things were not as bad as he
feared with the Corinthians.
And I think Paul is describing
God as the God who gives
encouragement to those who are
weary in this race they are
running, to those whose
circumstances have brought them
sadness and weariness of spirit,
he lifts them up again.
That's the description of
what's going on there.
At any rate, Paul was
encouraged by what he heard from
Titus, and he goes on in seven,
eight through ten, for even if
I made you grieve with my
letter, I do not regret it,
though I did regret it, for I
see that the letter grieved you,
though only for a while.
As it is, I rejoice, not
because you were grieved, but
because you were grieved into
repenting.
For you felt a godly grief so
that you suffered no loss
through us, for godly grief
produces a repentance that leads
to salvation without regret,
whereas worldly grief produces
death.
Now Paul is describing a very
common human experience here.
All of us have been in those
situations where we think
somebody else is messed up, and
we have to tell them.
Imagine one of your good
friends, we'll call her Carol,
is making some really bad
decisions, and you can see that
the path she's heading down is
going to do her a great deal of
harm, but she won't listen to
you.
She pulls away from you and
starts listening to people who
put you down and they
misrepresent what you say.
They tell Carol it's not her
fault, it's your fault, you're
the problem, and the situation
becomes so tense that you can't
hang around with her anymore.
But you still care for her, so
you pour your heart out in a
long text message.
You write what's true, you warn
her about the danger she's in,
you tell her that you still care
about her, you miss their
friendship, but you just can't
stay silent when she's making
such big mistakes.
You press send and then
silence.
You hear nothing from her.
As the hours turn into days,
you start to second guess every
word you wrote.
Was I too harsh?
Did I say the wrong thing?
Should I have said it this way
instead of that way?
Did I just ruin everything?
And then finally, your mutual
friend Tyson comes and he says,
Hey, I've just been talking to
Carol.
She read your message and she's
been thinking a lot about it,
and she agrees with you.
She'd forgotten how much you
cared, and she is grateful that
you wrote and she wants to talk
to you.
Well, that's the kind of
situation that happened between
Paul and the Corinthians.
He wrote them a strong letter,
which could have been
misunderstood.
Then he had to wait a long time
for a response, and during that
time he waited and worried.
But finally Titus showed up
with good news that they had
responded well, and Paul, who
had been carrying that weight
for many months, overflowed with
joy.
Now it turned out well for Paul
and the Corinthians, but it's
very common for that kind of
situation to result in a breach.
Once the tension between the
two parties is made explicit, it
can't be ignored, and the
relationship often sadly breaks
down.
They may stop talking to each
other and go their separate
ways, both convinced they were
right, and that's a pretty
common scenario you're probably
familiar with.
And I think this is the kind of
thing Paul has in mind when he
says the sorrow of the world
produces death.
Paul's harsh letter could have
left both parties with sorrow
and regret, both insisting they
were right, both insisting the
other one was wrong, and this
irreparable breach between them.
The letter could have become
one more nail in the coffin of
their deteriorating
relationship.
But thankfully that's not what
happened here, and that's what
Paul is rejoicing over.
The Corinthian church had
something to repent over, Paul
pointed it out to him.
To them, and they did in fact
repent, and the letter produced
in them a sorrow according to
the will of God which led to
repentance.
I think it's interesting that
Paul says, For though I caused
you sorrow by my letter, I do
not regret it, though I did
regret it.
There are times when we need to
say things that make other
people unhappy, because
unhappiness is the door they
must go through to find life.
There are times when sorrow
must precede repentance, and
this is the distinction we need,
this godly grief versus worldly
sorrow.
Godly grief is a sorrow that
comes when the light goes on,
when we see our sin and
recognize we were in the wrong
and we want to be different.
This is the kind of sorrow that
leads us somewhere and it leads
us to repentance.
Paul describes it as it
produces a repentance that leads
to salvation without regret.
Godly grief is a sorrow that
produces repentance, which leads
to salvation.
Worldly sorrow never turns
around.
It's self-focused, it never
learns, and it is on a path that
leads to death.
And we can see examples of
godly grief in the New
Testament.
The prodigal came to himself
before he went home to his
father.
His empty stomach exposed his
empty heart, and sorrow moved
his feet toward his father.
King David didn't just admit
his failure, he mourns a
violated relationship in Psalm
51 against you and you only have
I sinned.
We see his godly grief.
Peter, after his denial, meets
the risen Lord, weeps bitterly,
and then is returned and
restored to the mission.
Judas, by contrast, is the one
who never turns.
He feels remorse, but he never
turns to the Lord with it.
And that is a sorrow that leads
to death, worldly grief.
So sorrow doesn't have to be
the finish line, it can be the
gateway to repentance and
salvation.
Now, Paul's line, I do not
regret it, though I did regret
it.
I think this shows how human he
was.
Speaking the truth in love will
cause temporary pain.
And we feel the weight of that.
We regret making people feel
sorrowful even when we know we
have to do it.
And parents, good parents, do
this all the time.
We know that sometimes we have
to make our children feel
uncomfortable, feel sorrowful in
order to reach a greater goal.
But if you love someone, you're
willing to risk a short-term
sorrow to gain long-term life.
Now, Paul is not saying
believers never look back with
sadness over the sin in their
lives or what sin costs.
He's not saying repentance
produces no regret.
I think what he's saying is you
won't regret repenting.
Ten years into repentance, no
one ever says, Oh gee, I wish
I'd stayed in the dark.
Godly sorrow yields a life you
will not regret having chosen.
That's the point he's making.
You won't regret repenting and
turning back to God.
Now Paul goes on to further
describe their reaction.
This is eleven and twelve.
For see what earnestness this
godly grief has produced in you,
but also what eagerness to
clear yourselves, what
indignation, what fear, what
longing, what zeal, what
punishment.
At every point you have proved
yourselves innocent in the
matter.
So although I wrote to you, it
was not for the sake of the one
who did wrong, nor for the sake
of the one who suffered the
wrong, but in order that your
earnestness for us might be
revealed in you in the sight of
God.
Paul says they demonstrated
themselves to be innocent in the
matter, and I don't think he's
saying, Oh wait, you never did
anything wrong.
He's not saying your innocence
in the sense that you have
nothing to repent over.
He can't mean that.
If that were true, he wouldn't
have needed to flee Corinth or
write the sorrowful letter.
Instead, I think he's
acknowledging you're on the
right track.
Your misunderstanding, your
failure here does not stem from
a deeper problem of rejecting
the gospel and rejecting Paul.
Whatever mistake they make, it
was not rooted in hostility
toward God.
They wanted Paul to understand
that they had zeal for him and
his gospel, and Paul says, I
recognize that you do.
They feared Paul's letter meant
he had lost all confidence in
them, and he says, Nope, that's
not what happened.
He says he didn't write for the
sake of the offender or the one
offended.
That is, his purpose was not to
punish the man who did wrong or
to clear his name.
Instead, he wrote that their
earnestness on our behalf might
be made known to you in the
sight of God.
Essentially, I think he's
saying there, I wanted you to
understand yourselves.
I wanted you to have a chance
to wake up to the fact that the
gospel means something to you,
that I, Paul, means something to
you.
Paul wanted them to confront
the question, which side are you
on?
Are you on the side of this man
who opposes my work as an
apostle?
Or are you on the side of the
gospel?
And he's cautiously optimistic
that they are on his side and
he's writing to them so they
wake up and realize it.
And now, with time and
reflection, they have had the
opportunity to step back and
say, Yep, we do side with Paul,
we should have done something
here, we care about the gospel
and we are going to respond.
Titus reported back a whole
list of responses that the
Corinthians had.
They vindicated themselves of
this idea that they were against
Paul.
They were indignant that anyone
would think that they had
turned against Paul or rejected
the gospel.
They feared that Paul had
written them off, that his
stirred words indicated he'd
lost confidence in them.
They had a longing to restore
their relationship with Paul,
and they wanted to continue that
good relationship.
They had zeal for Paul's
ministry and for the gospel.
They had punishment, they
avenged the wrong done, they
dealt with the man who had
opposed Paul, and Paul says he
was encouraged by their response
along with Titus.
Now let's finish this up
thirteen through sixteen.
Therefore we are comforted, and
besides our own comfort we
rejoice still more at the joy of
Titus, because his spirit has
been refreshed by you all.
For whatever boast I made to
him about you I was not put to
shame.
But just as everything we said
to you was true, so also our
boasting before Titus has proved
true, and his affection for you
is even greater as he remembers
the obedience of you all, how
you received him with fear and
trembling.
I rejoice because I have
complete confidence in you.
So Paul says he boasted to
Titus about the Corinthians.
Presumably this happened when
Paul handed the sorrowful letter
to Titus and asked him to carry
it to Corinth.
Titus may have expressed some
doubt about how the Corinthians
would receive him, which makes
perfect sense if you think about
how that situation could have
turned out.
You could imagine that Titus
expressed some fear in returning
to Corinth, and Paul boasted
it's going to be okay.
Paul encouraged Titus.
There were genuine believers in
Corinth who would repent and
who would respond to the truth.
And that's how it turned out.
But after Titus left, it sounds
like Paul's imagination got the
better of him and he feared,
ooh, maybe the Corinthians are
going to respond badly.
So I think there's something of
a sigh of relief in this
comment.
I boasted to Titus that you
would respond well and you did.
Now how do we apply this to our
lives today?
This section raises the
question, do I write the letter
or not?
In other words, when do we
speak up and when do we stay
silent?
When you see a Christian friend
and you think that friend is
seriously in the wrong, do you
write the sorrowful letter or
have that sorrowful conversation
that you know is going to make
them upset, maybe angry, and
maybe even break the
relationship for good?
Or do you stay silent?
Well, I think we can learn from
Paul how to handle these
situations.
The thing that I find most
interesting in what he says is
verse seven twelve.
He says, So although I wrote to
you, it was not for the sake of
the one who did wrong, nor for
the sake of the one who suffered
the wrong, but in order that
your earnestness for us might be
revealed to you in the sight of
God.
That gives us his guidelines.
He didn't speak up in order to
make sure that the one who did
wrong got punished.
So his primary motivation for
writing the letter was not to
make sure that the offender got
what was coming to him.
Nor did he write for his own
sake.
He says he doesn't write for
the sake of the one who suffered
wrong.
Well, Paul is the one who
suffered wrong.
So he didn't write to clear his
own name, to make himself feel
better, or to vindicate himself.
And that's a guideline we can
apply to ourselves when we're
trying to decide should we speak
up or stay silent.
Often if I stop and if I'm
honest, I want to tell others
where I think they're wrong
because I want them to treat me
better.
I want my life to be easier.
If I could convince this other
person that I'm right and
they're wrong, then my life
would go more smoothly and I
would feel better, and I'd have
this wonderful little sense of
victory that the person who hurt
me would be punished and ensure
everyone knows I'm right.
That's the wrong motivation.
And Paul says that's not my
motivation.
He's not looking to be
personally vindicated or to make
his life easier.
So that's one thing we can ask
when we're approaching the
situation to speak or stay
silent.
What's my motivation here?
If I'm really only after
winning the argument or
vindicating myself in some way,
or making my life easier in some
way, then perhaps I should stay
silent and trust God to handle
it.
Then in the same verse, there's
Paul's comment about how he
wants to awaken them.
He wants to reveal something in
them.
He wants to remind them of some
truth that they claim to
believe.
And in this case, the truth is
that Paul and his gospel mean
something to them.
He wants his letter to remind
them that they embrace the
gospel that Paul preached to
them, and he wants to remind
them of the truth they claim to
have believed.
So that's our other guideline.
If I'm writing to remind
someone of a gospel truth that I
sincerely think they need to
hear, then I should speak up.
So those I think are our two
guideposts.
Don't write the sorrowful
letter so that you can improve
your own situation.
Don't write the sorrowful
letter so that you can make
yourselves feel better, or
vindicate yourselves, or make
sure the wrongdoers get what's
coming to them, or congratulate
ourselves that we've had victory
over this other person.
Those are the wrong
motivations.
But we should write the letter
when we want to inspire someone
to the truth of the gospel.
If our motivation is to improve
their life, to improve their
situation, to help them avoid
danger or regret, then we speak.
Now, of course, we all face the
temptation of wanting to be the
person who's right.
We're all tempted to puff
ourselves up by putting someone
else down, and in those
situations we want to stop and
bite our tongues.
Paul says he wept many tears
writing this letter, but he
wrote it in the hope that he
could stir them to the truth of
the gospel.
He could get them to remember
what they were really all about.
So in essence, we write a
sorrowful letter out of love.
If our motivation is to improve
the other person's life or
inspire them to the truth of the
gospel in some way, then speak
up.
Now Paul talks about the sorrow
that is according to the will
of God, the sorrow that leads to
repentance.
We talked about that earlier
with godly grief and worldly
sorrow.
That sort of sorrow, that godly
grief, is a great treasure.
True, it's painful.
The kind of sorrow that leads
to repentance is a wonderful
gift because repentance leads to
eternal life.
We should want to have the
sorrow that is according to the
will of God.
We should embrace the sorrow
that leads us to repent because
repentance is something we will
never regret.
That kind of sorrow is a great
and glorious gift because it
leads to eternal life.
Now it may not be pleasant in
the moment, but it is very
beneficial in the long run.
So there's a sense in which we
should all pray for the sorrow
that is according to the will of
God.
And if we think there's a good
chance that our words could lead
to that kind of godly grief,
the kind of sorrow that leads to
repentance, then ultimately
that's a good thing.
And we should at least be open
to the idea that sometimes it is
our calling.
It falls on us to say those
sorrowful words.
Godly sorrow is a doorway, not
a destination.
Walk through it and help others
find the way through it, and
you won't regret it.
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