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Krisan Marotta: Welcome to the
Wednesday in the Word podcast.
I'm Krisan Marotta, and this is
my podcast about what the Bible
means and how we know it.
Today is the tenth talk in my
series on the fruit of the
spirit.
I am glad you joined me today.
In this series, we are
searching for an understanding
of the nouns on Paul's list of
the fruit of the spirit.
Today we'll be talking about
gentleness.
We're exploring scripture to
see what the Bible says about
these concepts and therefore
what Paul was thinking when he
wrote the list.
I have been arguing that the
items on this list are not
feelings.
Rather, they are a lifestyle
that results from a profound
worldview shift.
As the Spirit of God teaches us
truth, our perspective changes,
and that changes how we choose
to act, respond, and treat each
other.
As always, we'll start by
remembering the context in
Galatians where we find the
list.
Paul spends most of his time in
Galatians refuting the teaching
of the Judaizers and arguing
that faith in Jesus is
sufficient for salvation.
At this point in the letter,
he's arguing that freedom from
the law does not mean that we
are free to pursue sin.
Paul argues that lawkeeping
only changes us on the outside,
producing a fake moral
transformation.
But once we have faith in
Jesus, God gives us his spirit,
and his spirit changes us from
the inside out, producing
genuine moral change.
The qualities on this list are
the result of that change and
are examples of the kind of
thing that the Spirit produces
in us.
We have come to the fruit of
the Spirit that both the English
Standard Version of the Bible
and the New American Standard
Version translate as gentleness.
This word is also translated as
meek or meekness or lowly or
lowliness.
We don't have an English word
that exactly captures the
meaning of this Greek word.
Because we don't have a
one-to-one translation
equivalent, this word is often
misunderstood.
If you've heard my teaching on
the Beatitudes from the Gospel
of Matthew, this concept of
meekness or gentleness is going
to be familiar to you.
In the Beatitudes, Jesus says,
Blessed are the meek, for they
shall inherit the earth, and
that word meek is the same word
as the one in our list.
In fact, it was studying the
Beatitudes that first challenged
me to try to understand what
this word means.
To start us off, we're going to
look at two passages from the
Old Testament.
And let me remind you, I'm not
going to cover all the
complexities of a word study.
Paul and Jesus use this Greek
word, but we have a Greek
version of the Old Testament,
and it is often useful to study
the Hebrew word that this Greek
word translates, and that's
where we're going to start.
We're going to start with
Numbers 12.
We'll be looking at a story
about Moses, and let me first
place this story in biblical
history.
God called Abraham, and that
started the history of the
Jewish people.
God made certain promises to
Abraham, which his son Isaac
inherited.
Isaac was the father of Jacob.
Jacob inherited the promises,
and he is later renamed Israel.
Jacob had twelve sons, and
those sons became the patriarchs
of the twelve tribes of Israel,
and the children of Israel
become what we think of as the
Jewish people.
So after Abraham, Isaac, and
Jacob, through a series of
complicated events, the children
of Israel ended up as slaves in
the land of Egypt.
Eventually they cried out to
God to rescue them from the
slavery.
God heard them and sent the
prophet Moses to rescue them
from Egypt.
Moses was aided by his brother
Aaron, who was a priest, and his
sister Miriam, who was a
prophetess.
After they have left Egypt, at
one point in their journey,
Miriam and Aaron grow jealous of
their brother, and that's the
story we're going to read.
This is Numbers chapter twelve,
verses one through sixteen.
Miriam and Aaron spoke against
Moses because of the Cushite
woman whom he had married, for
he had married a Cushite woman.
And they said, Has the Lord
indeed spoken only through
Moses?
Has he not spoken through us
also?
And the Lord heard it.
Now the man Moses was very
meek, more than all the people
who were on the face of the
earth.
And suddenly the Lord said to
Moses and to Aaron and Miriam,
Come out, you three to the tent
of meeting, and the three of
them came out.
And the Lord came down in a
pillar of cloud and stood at the
entrance of the tent, and
called Aaron and Miriam, and
they both came forward.
And he said, Hear my words, if
there is a prophet among you, I
the Lord make myself known to
him in a vision.
I speak with him in a dream,
not so with my servant Moses.
He is faithful in all my house.
With him I speak mouth to
mouth, clearly, and not in
riddles, and he beholds the form
of the Lord.
Why then were you not afraid to
speak against my servant Moses?
And the anger of the Lord was
kindled against them, and he
departed.
When the cloud removed from
over the tent, behold, Miriam
was leprous, like snow, and
Aaron turned toward Miriam, and
behold she was leprous.
And Aaron said to Moses, O my
Lord, do not punish us because
we have done foolishly and have
sinned.
Let her not be as one dead,
whose flesh is half eaten away
when he comes out of his
mother's womb.
And Moses cried to the Lord, O
God, please heal her, please.
But the Lord said to Moses, If
her father had but spit in her
face, should she not be shamed
for seven days?
Let her be shut outside the
camp seven days, and after that
she may be brought in again.
So Miriam was shut outside the
camp seven days, and the people
did not set out on the march
till Miriam was brought in
again.
After that the people sent out
from Hazarith and camped in the
wilderness of Peron.
I'm not going to cover what's
happening with Miriam in the
story.
I do have a podcast on that
passage that looks at the story
from Miriam's perspective, and
I'll put a link to that in the
blog post version of the podcast
if you're interested.
For our purposes today, I want
to look at Moses.
Moses is unique among all the
prophets of Israel.
If you remember the story,
Moses encountered God in the
form of a burning bush.
God took a visual form in front
of Moses and spoke to him on
several occasions.
After they escaped from Egypt,
Moses regularly entered the tent
of meeting, which you could
think of as an early version of
the temple.
He would go into the tent and
then inside the Holy of Holies,
the glory of God would settle on
the tent of meeting and Moses
would speak with God.
Then Moses would come out and
report to the people what God
had said.
Later, when they were camped at
Mount Sinai, Moses would ascend
the mountain and speak with God
on top of the mountain.
When Moses returned from
speaking with God, his face
would shine, because he had been
in the presence of the glory of
the Lord.
And when he returned, that
shining light remained on his
face for a while, and people
were afraid of him.
Moses was called by God to lead
the children of Israel.
His siblings, Miriam and Aaron,
were also leaders of the
people, but God did not speak to
them in the same way.
He did not speak to them face
to face like he did with Moses.
So at this point, Miriam
decides, God's not being fair.
After all, they're all
prophets, just like Moses.
Miriam and Aaron are called by
God.
They lead the people too.
They're just like Moses, maybe
even a little better than their
baby brother, because after all,
Moses had this skeleton in his
closet.
He had married a non-Jewish
woman.
They didn't have any closet
skeletons, and they want to be
seen as equal to Moses.
In other words, they're jealous
and they're ambitious.
They think they deserve an
equal share of the respect and
the honor that Moses has.
Well, God responds promptly.
God makes it very clear that
Moses had a unique role.
He asks Miriam and Aaron, what
makes you think you can set
yourself up as equal to Moses?
Moses has a job to do, and it's
not your job.
He is unique among all the
prophets because God chose to
talk to him directly.
In fact, there's no other
prophet like Moses until the
Messiah comes.
When God wants to talk to
Moses, he doesn't give Moses a
dream or a vision that Moses
must write down and interpret.
When God wants to talk to
Moses, Moses can talk back.
They have a conversation, and
this is unique.
God did not have conversations
with Miriam or Aaron, he only
had conversations with Moses.
Now I'm telling this story
because of the comment in the
middle of it, Numbers 12, 3.
Now the man Moses was very
meek, more than all people who
were on the face of the earth.
This word meek is the one we're
concerned with.
It's sometimes translated
humble, sometimes it's
translated gentle, sometimes
it's lowly.
But our English word gentle can
be very misleading.
It sort of implies somebody
who's all soft and squishy,
someone who wouldn't dare raise
their voice or raise their eyes
off the floor to make eye
contact, that sort of thing.
But that's not the idea behind
this Hebrew word or this Greek
word.
Moses is a big deal.
He is a prophet among prophets.
There is no other prophet like
him.
He has a personal relationship
with God that no other prophet
or person has until the Messiah
comes.
If anyone on the planet could
claim to be a big deal, it was
Moses.
He could have flaunted his
position, and yet he does not
push himself forward.
In fact, if you go back in
Exodus, you'll learn that when
God first called Moses and told
him that he was giving Moses
this leadership role, Moses
declined.
He says, You know, no thanks.
Why don't you choose Aaron
instead?
I think he's better qualified
than I am.
God says, No, you're the man
for the job, and Moses keeps
protesting until finally he
provokes God to anger, and then
he accepts the role.
Moses was not in an exalted or
important position because he
sought it.
He was in that position because
God put him there, even though
he didn't seek it.
That attitude is what we're
getting at by this word meek.
Meekness is that quality of
accepting what God has given you
and not asking for more.
Meekness is that quality of not
putting yourself forward, not
being presumptuous.
That's the quality Moses had.
He had this attitude of, I am
not going to exalt myself, I'm
not going to push myself
forward, I will accept whatever
God gives me.
Now let's look at Psalm 37.
And this is the Psalm that
Jesus quotes in the Beatitudes
when he says, Blessed are the
meek, for they shall inherit the
earth.
And again, this word meek is
the one we're concerned with.
Psalm 37, 1 and 2 starts like
this fret not yourself because
of evildoers.
Be not envious of wrongdoers,
for they will soon fade like the
grass and wither like the green
herb.
These opening verses give us
the theme of the psalm.
Don't fret about the evildoers
in this world.
The people who reject God,
don't worry about them, don't be
jealous of them.
Evildoers reject God and grab
and take for what they want.
They trample over those who
trust in the Lord and take
advantage of them.
It may look like they're
winning in the short term
because they're taking advantage
of those who trust God, but
don't be fooled.
When God's judgment comes, they
will wither like the grass.
And this psalm explores the
difference between where we are
now and where we will end up.
Right now, it may look like the
wicked are getting the better
end of the deal, but those who
trust God are the real winners.
In the end, the wicked are
going to disappear, and the
righteous who trust God will be
vindicated and live forever.
Let's go on with the Psalm.
This is verses three through
six.
Trust in the Lord and do good.
Dwell in the land and befriend
faithfulness.
Delight yourself in the Lord,
and he will give you the desires
of your heart.
Commit your way to the Lord,
trust in him, and he will act.
He will bring forth your
righteousness as the light and
your justice as the noonday.
So here's the flip side from
the first two verses.
Don't worry about the wicked
who seem to be prospering.
Instead, trust in the Lord.
And notice the emphasis here is
on how this story is going to
turn out.
Trust in the Lord.
The time is coming when God
will change the way things are.
The Lord's going to bring
justice, and those who trust him
will be raised up, and those
who have opposed him will be
brought low.
This theme that God will bring
about this ironic inversion one
day runs through both the Old
and New Testaments, but it is
especially common in the Psalms.
We see this idea over and over
again.
Those who think they have
everything the world has to
offer are going to lose it.
Those who seem to have little
because they trust God are going
to be given everything worth
having.
The truly important thing is
where you're going to end up,
not where you are right now.
Let's look at seven through
nine.
Be still before the Lord and
wait patiently for him.
Fret not yourself over the one
who prospers in his way, over
the man who carries out evil
devices.
Refrain from anger and forsake
wrath.
Fret not yourself, it tends
only the evil.
For the evildoers shall be cut
off, but those who wait for the
Lord shall inherit the land.
In just a little while the
wicked will be no more, though
you look carefully at his place,
he will not be there.
But the meek shall inherit the
land and delight themselves in
abundant peace.
So you can see this theme
emerging.
The evildoers, those people who
reject God and are selfishly
ambitious, they are going to
vanish.
Right now they're stealing,
pushing, shoving, and trampling
others to get what they want.
They resort to evil devices to
get their way.
They grab and take what is not
theirs.
But by contrast, the people of
God rest and wait on the Lord.
Now this rest is not sleeping.
This rest is acknowledging God
is in control.
This rest is refusing to break
God's rules or to resort to evil
to take something you want.
It's saying, I refuse to
trample you to get what I want.
I refuse to steal or take
something God has withheld from
me because I am confident that
God knows what I truly need.
God has promised to bless me
and treat me well, and
ultimately I'm looking to the
promise of his kingdom.
Of course, the irony is the
evildoers are going to vanish,
they're going to be cut off.
The ones who seem to be
prospering, indulging in these
wicked schemes are going to
vanish and lose everything.
But the one who waits for the
Lord will find rest in the land.
The guy who's scheming right
now and is trying to grab up all
the land around you on your
left and right, he's not going
to keep it.
That land's not going to be
his, it's not his inheritance,
but it will be your inheritance
if you trust in God.
Now the reason I brought us to
the Psalm is these verses ten
and eleven.
Let me read those again.
In just a little while, the
wicked will be no more, though
you look carefully at his place,
he will not be there.
And then verse eleven, but the
meek shall inherit the land and
delight themselves in abundant
peace.
And here's that word we're
looking at again.
The humble, the meek, the
gentle, those who are not high
because they are ambitious and
because they've exalted
themselves, but those who are
waiting on God.
The meek do not presumptuously
grab or take or steal to get
what they want, they don't
trample others to get what they
want, they don't demand that God
give them more or a higher
place like Miriam and Aaron did.
Instead, they seek only that
which God gives them.
They put their trust in Him and
wait for His promises to be
fulfilled, content with whatever
He gives them.
Those who are meek trust God
and strive to be content with
whatever He gives them.
They do not presumptuously
demand what God has withheld.
I think Jesus had this idea of
meekness in mind when he told
the little parable of the
wedding feast.
Jesus was at a banquet and he
saw people jockeying for which
table they were going to sit at.
This is Luke fourteen, verses
seven through eleven.
Now he told a parable to those
who were invited, when he
noticed how they chose the
places of honor, saying to them,
When you are invited by someone
to a wedding feast, do not sit
down in a place of honor, lest
someone more distinguished than
you be invited by him, and he
who invited you both will come
and say to you, give up your
place to this person, and then
you will begin with shame to
take the lowest place.
But when you are invited, go
and sit in the lowest place, so
that when your host comes he may
say to you, Friend, move up
higher.
Then you will be honored in the
presence of all who sit at the
table with you.
For everyone who exalts himself
will be humbled, and he who
humbles himself will be exalted.
Now this situation may be
familiar to you.
You've probably been to a
wedding recently.
The best table is the one where
the bride and groom and their
families sit.
Then there's the honored tables
for extended family members and
the bridal party, and the least
desirable tables are usually
the ones in the back or in the
corners by the kitchen doors
where you can't see or hear
anything.
We all consider some tables
better than others.
Well, the same kind of thing
must have been happening in
Jesus' day.
He saw some of the Pharisees
and the guests working to get
themselves seated at the better
tables, and he told this little
parable in response.
And his point was if you grab a
seat at the high table, what's
likely to happen?
The host is going to consult
his guest list and say, Oh no,
no, excuse me, you're not
supposed to be at that table,
you're supposed to be back here
at this other table, and then
you will have to move and be
embarrassed in front of
everybody.
What should you do instead?
Sit in the back.
Then when the host consults his
list, he'll say, Oh no, you're
not supposed to be back there.
Come on up here.
And instead of being
embarrassed and humiliated, you
will be honored.
And he uses that as a picture
of the two kinds of attitudes we
can take toward life and toward
God.
We can grab for it, trying to
get the best seat for ourselves,
in which case God may come
along and say, sorry, that's not
for you.
Or we can sit in the back,
trusting that the host will
bring us forward at the proper
time.
And then, of course, we get one
of those classic inversion
statements: he who exalts
himself will be humbled, and he
who humbles himself will be
exalted.
The lowly person, the humble,
the gentle, the meek person will
be exalted.
The aggressive, ambitious taker
will be humiliated.
So the person who has
gentleness or meekness is this
person who's willing to wait and
trust God and see what comes
his way.
Jesus himself is an interesting
model of this quality of
gentleness or meekness.
This is a story from when he
entered Jerusalem right before
the crucifixion.
This is Matthew 21, verses 1
through 9.
Now when they drew near to
Jerusalem and came to Beth Page,
to the Mount of Olives, then
Jesus sent two disciples, saying
to them, Go into the village in
front of you, and immediately
you will find a donkey tied, and
a colt with her.
Untie them and bring them to
me.
If anyone says anything to you,
you shall say the Lord needs
them, and he will send them at
once.
This took place to fulfill what
was spoken by the prophets,
saying, Say to the daughter of
Zion, Behold your king is coming
to you, humble and mounted on a
donkey, on a cold the foal of a
beast of burden.
The disciples went and did as
Jesus had directed them.
They brought the donkey and the
colt and put on them their
cloaks, and he sat on them.
Most of the crowds spread their
cloaks on the road, and others
cut branches from the trees and
spread them on the road.
And the crowds that went before
him and that followed him were
shouting, Hosanna to the Son of
David, blessed is he who comes
in the name of the Lord, Hosanna
in the highest.
Picture what's going on here.
This is the king, this is the
Messiah.
He should be riding in on a war
horse, with his sword gleaming
in the sunlight and his hair
streaming in the wind, on a
white horse with all his army of
soldiers behind him.
But how is he entering
Jerusalem?
He's riding a beast of burden.
He's not coming in a blaze of
glory.
He's riding a lowly donkey.
Jesus is often held up as a
model of meekness, of this kind
of gentleness we're talking
about.
But think about what he's doing
in this situation.
He is entering Jerusalem as the
king, the long awaited Messiah.
He's not coming in humbly in
the sense of people call out
Hosanna and he says, Oh, no, no,
no, no, I'm just a regular.
Guy.
You don't need to make a big
deal out of me.
The people cry out, Hosanna to
the son of David, blessed is he
who comes in the name of the
Lord, and he acknowledges their
praise.
In fact, Luke tells us that
some of the Pharisees were
outraged by the people shouting
this, and they say to Jesus,
Tell your disciples to be quiet.
Listen to what they're
shouting, listen to what they're
saying to you.
Tell them to stop.
This is Luke 19, 39 and 40.
And some of the Pharisees in
the crowd said to him, Teacher,
rebuke your disciples.
He answered, I tell you, if
these were silent, the very
stones would cry out.
Jesus responds, Look, it won't
do any good for me to tell them
to be quiet, because if they
shut up, the very stones would
cry out, Hosanna in the highest.
That's how confident he is that
he is the king.
He is the long-awaited Messiah.
He knows it, he acknowledges
it.
The crowds are right to shout
his praise and proclaim him as
the king of the world.
Yet Jesus doesn't take this
role before God gives it to him.
He doesn't try to grab it in
his timing.
He doesn't try to shortcut the
path that God asked him to walk.
He doesn't shrink from the
cross because he knows the cross
is the path to his coronation.
So in that sense, he is coming
as a king who is meek, gentle,
and humble.
He doesn't deny that he's king.
He's not making a big deal of
himself.
He doesn't put himself down.
He doesn't hide from his role.
He accepts everything God has
given him in the timing God
gives it.
He humbly accepts and follows
the plan of God.
He waits and acts, trusting
God, accepting what God gives
him.
I think we see this even more
clearly in another passage from
Matthew.
This is Matthew 11, 28 through
30.
Jesus is speaking here, and he
says, Come to me all who labor
and are heavy laden, and I will
give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you and learn
from me, for I am gentle and
lowly in heart, and you will
find rest for your souls, for my
yoke is easy and my burden is
light.
And this word gentle is the
word we're looking at again.
He talks about becoming his
disciple, and he says, Take my
yoke upon you, learn from me,
for I am gentle.
Take my yoke upon you is the
language of discipleship.
He's making a really bold
statement here.
He says, Make me your teacher,
make me your master, your lord.
That's the image of the yoke.
The farmer puts a yoke on the
oxen because he is their master.
The yoke limits their freedom.
The farmer puts on the yoke to
keep the oxen together, to make
it so they work together and
they work for him and follow his
commands.
They are his servants.
With the yoke on them, they
must do the will of the farmer.
The imagery of the yoke is the
imagery of submission to a
master.
When Jesus says, take my yoke
upon yourself, he's saying,
Submit to me.
He's acknowledging it is right
for you to submit to me.
I am your teacher, I am your
king, I'm your master, you
should take my yoke upon you.
But why should you take his
yoke and what will you learn
from him?
Why can you trust him and
submit yourself like that?
Because he is lowly and humble
of heart.
He is not lowly in the sense
that he's reluctant to call us
to obey him.
He's not lowly in the sense
that he puts himself down and
shrinks into a corner and
refuses the kingship, but he is
gentle and lowly in the way he
handles his authority and power.
He does not exercise his
authority for his own benefit.
He does not let his position of
power corrupt him or go to his
head.
Now how rare is that?
By definition, having power
means that we have the ability
to get what we want, and we very
easily confuse authority and
power.
Whenever we human beings get
power, we start using it very
selfishly for our own benefit
and often at the expense of
others.
Just look at any politician and
you'll see this is true.
But we can take the yoke of
Jesus because he is meek, he is
gentle, he will not take
advantage of us, he will not use
his kingship to abuse us, he
will not harm us or enslave us
for selfish purposes.
Jesus will not use his power
and authority for his own
benefit.
Instead, he says he is gentle.
He does only what God has
called him to do.
He tells us simply and
truthfully, I am the Messiah,
the King of kings, who will rule
on David's throne forever.
I am your master.
If you submit to me, you will
find life.
I'm not doing this for my sake,
I'm doing it for your sake.
If you take my yoke upon you,
you will find rest for your
souls.
My yoke will not become a
burden, it won't be a wearying
task that ends up benefiting me
and draining you.
No, when you take my yoke upon
you, I'm working for you, I'm
doing this for you.
I think that's what's going on
in this section.
By saying he is gentle and
meek, he's saying he is not
personally ambitious.
He himself submitted to the
plans and purposes of his
heavenly father.
He waited for God to exalt him,
he did not exalt himself.
Yes, he was king of kings and
lord of lords, but he waited
until God made him king.
And he did not use his kingship
for his own benefit.
Let's look at another passage.
This is James 3.
James is writing to the leaders
in the churches.
He describes those leaders as
being jealous and selfishly
ambitious.
They are engaged in a battle
for authority and power in the
church.
Apparently, everyone is trying
to push themselves forward to
gain the upper hand and get
their way.
James looks at the situation
and says, you know, I don't
think very many of you should
become teachers because look at
your attitudes.
Look at what's coming out of
your mouths.
Look at the ambition, the
selfishness that's driving you.
And then he says this, this is
3, 13, and 14.
Who is wise and understanding
among you?
By his good conduct, let him
show his works in the meekness
of wisdom.
But if you have bitter jealousy
and selfish ambition in your
hearts, do not boast and be
false to the truth.
James is essentially asking,
who should be in the positions
of leadership among you?
It's the one who shows himself
to be a good leader by his
behavior.
He leads in the gentleness of
wisdom.
And this is the same idea we've
been talking about.
It's the humility, the meekness
of accepting whatever God has
for you and not trying to lord
it over others.
Some are battling for power and
trying to build their own
little fiefdoms in the church.
The very fact that they're
selfishly ambitious marks them
as people who shouldn't be
leading anybody.
By contrast, those who are wise
demonstrate that wisdom in
meekness.
They are willing to let God
fight their battles.
They are willing to sit in the
back row.
They don't seek their own gain
at the expense of the people
that they're teaching or
leading.
Instead, they trust God, they
wait on the Lord, just as
they're asking you to wait on
the Lord.
So loneliness is not just an
attitude that we have towards
God, it is also an attitude that
we have toward each other.
And I think that's the quality
Paul is talking about in
Galatians as a fruit of the
Spirit.
How do we demonstrate this
gentleness, this meekness as a
fruit of the Spirit?
We show it in the way we treat
each other.
At the end of the section where
he talks about the fruit of the
Spirit, Paul says this, this is
Galatians 5, verses 25 through
chapter 6, verse 1.
If we live by the Spirit, let
us also keep in step with the
Spirit.
Let us not become conceited,
provoking one another, envying
one another.
Brothers, if anyone is caught
in any transgression, you who
are spiritual should restore him
in a spirit of gentleness.
Keep watch on yourself lest you
too be tempted.
In 6.1 he uses the same word
that we find on the list of the
fruit of the Spirit, restore him
in a spirit of gentleness.
In Galatians, Paul is arguing
against legalists.
In their legalism, they are
fighting over who is keeping the
law best.
They are in contention, they
are judging and battling each
other.
And legalism leads to this kind
of conceit and provoking each
other, envying one another, and
this contentiousness over who's
keeping the law right and who
isn't.
Paul says, look, stop all that.
Line up with the Spirit.
What is it the Spirit's calling
us to?
He's calling us to be humble.
He's not calling us to
demonstrate how superior we are
in our religious life.
He's calling us to be gentle,
to be lowly.
Even if your brother is caught
red-handed in a trespass.
Paul moves the discussion
beyond some difference of
opinion over how kosher is
kosher.
Paul says, even if your brother
is caught in a flat-out sin,
there's no debate, there's no
question about it, what he did
was sin, it's evil.
Even in that case, what
attitude ought you to take
toward him?
You restore him in a spirit of
gentleness or lowliness, looking
to yourself lest you too be
tempted.
We love to compare ourselves.
We like to think we're doing
better by comparing ourselves to
someone else.
And the temptation is great to
use other people's problems as a
lever to make ourselves look
better.
Paul's saying that doesn't
work.
What you're called to is
gentleness, lowliness, meekness,
to see yourself as the same
kind of sinner who needs the
same grace and mercy from God.
And you approach that person
seeking to restore him from that
position of gentleness and
lowliness.
This is the same kind of
humility we've been talking
about through this series.
We're to see our neighbors as
equals.
We are no better than them.
We are all sinners in need of
the same grace of God.
The aspect of that we're
looking at this week is resting
in God, trusting Him.
And then because we trust Him,
being willing to take the lower
place, to wait, not to grab and
fight for what we think we're
due, but to wait and trust that
God will give us whatever He
wants to give us.
He is in control.
We don't have to fight for our
share.
We are no better than anyone
else, and God will work it all
out.
And because we stand firmly on
those truths, we deal with each
other from a position of
gentleness or lowliness, not
trying to put ourselves forward
at someone else's expense, not
trampling others to get what we
want.
Now again, we could look around
and say, okay, if this kind of
gentleness or lowliness is a
fruit of the spirit, it seems to
be in short supply in the
church.
It's not hard to find people
who use religion as a platform
for raw ambition.
All of us like to be the one in
power.
All of us like to be the one up
front on the stage.
We all like to be respected,
and we all like to be seen as
the most spiritual person in the
room.
There are many people who use
the name of Christianity to
amass power, prestige, money,
and control, and it's
recognizable.
The world around us recognizes
it and we recognize it.
It's not really hard to see,
and it's a terrible thing when
it happens.
And I would argue it's the
exact opposite of what Paul is
calling us to here with this
idea of gentleness.
But on the other hand, we want
to be careful in judging and
condemning each other.
We want to take the warning of
Galatians 6 1 seriously.
If anyone is caught in a
transgression, you who are
spiritual restore him in a
spirit of gentleness, keeping
watch on yourself lest you too
be tempted.
It can be tricky.
Jesus is the meekest and
humblest of men, and yet he is
king.
He gives commands.
He does not ask for my opinion
about the plans of God.
He has a message and he's not
going to change it because I'm
unhappy about it.
In one sense, then he is a
rock.
He is unchangeable, he is
unmoving, he is powerful and he
has authority.
And sometimes we followers of
Jesus must be like him and be
solid and unmoving.
When it comes to the truth of
the gospel, we dare not
compromise or back down.
There are times when we must
stand firm and call evil evil
and name lies as lies.
On the other hand, we should
learn to be lowly, to be gentle
or humble, not to make more of
ourselves than we are, but to
trust in God.
Perhaps the best picture of
this kind of unmoving meekness
is in the upper room where Jesus
washes the feet of his
disciples.
This is John 13, twelve through
seventeen.
When he had washed their feet
and put on his outer garments
and resumed his place, he said
to them, Do you understand what
I have done to you?
You call me teacher and lord,
and you are right, for so I am.
If I then, your Lord and
teacher, have washed your feet,
you also ought to wash one
another's feet, for I have given
you an example that you also
should do just as I have done to
you.
Truly, truly I say to you, a
servant is not greater than his
master, nor is the messenger
greater than the one who sent
him.
If you know these things,
blessed are you if you do them.
Jesus takes the very humble job
of one of the lowest household
servants and washes the feet of
his disciples.
Then he says, Do you know what
I have done?
Do you understand this?
You call me teacher, and you're
right.
I am your teacher and I am your
Lord.
I think what he's saying is, if
we want to start measuring by
position, power, and authority,
I am the most exalted person in
this room.
I am your Lord and Master, and
what have I done?
I washed the dirt off your
feet.
What does that teach you?
When you step into the role of
apostle, how are you going to
treat others?
When I go to my Father and you
become my apostles and hold the
highest position of authority
among my people, how are you
going to handle that authority?
Are you going to lord it over
my followers, or are you going
to take this attitude of the
place of a servant, serving,
teaching, and leading the
church, understanding that you
are to use what authority you
have as a servant?
And that's the line we all have
to learn to walk.
On the one hand, the Spirit of
God teaches us to be meek,
gentle people who are willing to
trust God and serve others.
And at the same time, we are
followers of a great king who
has taught us truth, and that
truth is not negotiable.
In one sense, we want to be
among the lowliest of people,
yet in another sense, we want to
be prepared to stand up for
what is right and true.
We want to, metaphorically
speaking, be prepared to cast
the money changers out of the
temple.
We want to stand up for the
truth, stand on the rock of the
gospel and not be knocked off,
and yet while we're standing on
that rock, we know who we are.
We know we are sinners in need
of mercy.
We know that even our master
served others, and that we are
called to serve, not lord it
over others.
This seems to me to be an
intrinsic implication of saving
faith, and I think that's why
it's one of the fruits of the
Spirit.
The Spirit of God teaches us
what we believe and how to live
like it's true.
And one of the things he
teaches us is we do not have to
ambitiously put ourselves
forward.
We do not need to seek honor
because God is going to exalt
us.
We are free to serve others
because we have a master whose
burden is gentle and easy, and
we know God will take care of
us.
We can take the low road
because we know the God that we
follow.
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